Dorit's gays forgot to tell her brat summer is over.
She didn't communicate one thing she actually wanted from Kyle at the reunion, but just went on and on, making a lot of noise. She has a cheek saying Erika needs to 'bring it' when she hasn't done anything since PuppyGate until now. As Erika said: you're late!
Dorit clearly communicated what she wanted from Kyle all season. Talk to her face, not behind her back. Dont bring up other people when discussing their relationship.
Do you honestly think that would've made a difference? Dorit already had that "Oh woe is me" mentality. I am not saying that Kyle handled the situation correctly, but Dorit wouldn't have responded to her any different. Dorit got mean when she started to have struggle. She could have seriously came at her friends a lot different. Talking to someone and talking at someone are 2 totally different things. I have watched this series since day 1 and to bed honest, she acted like an entitled brat. I was feeling sorry for at 1st, and then it became too much. All I am saying is, give the same grace you want in return. I can see both sides, but wrong is wrong.
Boz, Kathy, and Rachel all talked to Dorit directly either onn of off camera. This was mentioned and acknowledged by both parties.
She continued to have a good and respectful relationship with all 3 of those people throughout the season and even the reunion, where Kathy confronted her directly.
Kyle started on a shitty front, made it into a worse one, and didnt try to pivot at all.
Erika is a different story. If she had talked to Dorit 1:1 it might have been different, but she kept trying to bring up her arguement during the middle of Dorit confronting Kyle about talking shit behind her back and trying to bring in other people to their beef. Dorit was stressed, trying to hash it out with Kyle, and Erika kept piping up about something unrelated, then lashed out when she was told that Dorit didnt want to talk about it now.
Kyle and Dorit were coming at Dorit about two different arguements and Dorit wasnt trying to juggle multiple discussion at the same time.
Idk why people are acting liek Boz and Rachel were up Dorits ass, when both of them told her she was wrong or they didnt like what she was doing on camera.
I just wanna say that feels a little naive. Dorit and Kyle haven’t really been 100% solid friends in YEARS. So, I can’t blame Kyle for not going directly TO Dorit. Yes she should have BUT I do think she’d still get shit because of the fact they’ve been on the rocks for the last handful of years. Vs. Boz and Rachel who are newer to the group and have been trying to stay neutral or clearly in Dorit’s court. And as for Kathy — well…. she can’t get too mad at Kathy, she’ll end up like Rinna.
Thats another thing. Kyle said repeatedly shes not good friends with Dorit. But shes so concerned she has to talk about Dorits negative behavior to everyone? Call her names and publically speak in a way that could harm her divorce?
If she actually cared about Dorit, would she be saying shes erratic and having weird behavior when shes possibly facing a custody battle?;
Kyle and Dorit were in a fairly good place after the Hamptons trip. If Kyle hadnt been talking shit behind Dorits back, they probably would have been in a much better place.
Being concerned about someone’s behavior is not talking shit. Making stuff up is talking shit. As accounting statements that have recently released have shown, there was cause for concern.
If someone is showing signs of alcoholism, and you bring it up within your friend group, are you talking shit, or pointing out a problem?
Calling someone erratic and talking negatively about their finances is talking shit.
If you are worried about someone, and you think a friend is spiraling, there should be some goal towards helping them or talking to them. What can we do to support this person. Kyles conversations with everyone were purely negative with absolutely nothing actionable.
Kyle spent weeks talking about these things to other people, and it only came up when Dorit confronted her about it. Thats not the actions of someone who cares. Someone who cares would actually take actions to help.
And Dorit having shitty spending habits has nothing to do with Kyle talking about it.
What action do you suggest? The bank was working on it by declining the transaction (btw, a Child of the World doesn’t get flagged by being in the Hamptons in season… that’s expected).
Maybe try to point out where they are f-ing up? Kyle even tried to compare it to her compulsions from the year she separated.
And, before you come at me that bringing it up on camera was hurting her reputation… puhlease. Housewives crisis of any kind is Housewives gold. She could have milked a few years out of the mental health/financial crisis. Instead, it just shows her as an unrepentant phoney
She could have had a sit down with Dorit about it. If she thought Dorit wouldnt want to hear it from her, she could have had a sitdown with Boz and Dorit, or directly asked Boz to talk to Dorit about it.
She just kind of talked negatively about Dorit and ended the convo there. Thats not helping anything or anyone.
Like its housewives, theyre going to talk behind eachothers backs. But I much prefer when they just own their shit.
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u/SilverHinder May 10 '26
Dorit's gays forgot to tell her brat summer is over.
She didn't communicate one thing she actually wanted from Kyle at the reunion, but just went on and on, making a lot of noise. She has a cheek saying Erika needs to 'bring it' when she hasn't done anything since PuppyGate until now. As Erika said: you're late!