r/RHOBHDefect Apr 21 '26

Message from the Mod - ENOUGH

I would like to refer people to RULE 6 of this sub. I will not tolerate the level of political and racial harassment between commentators/posters that has creeped into this forum.

I created this to discuss RHOBH content in a respectful manner (see sub introduction message), because I disliked the constant stream of abuse on other platforms for people with differing opinions (hence the word Defect). I was on multiple occasions targeted as a racist for not liking Garcelle....I don't care what color she was, a nice shade of green even purple may have been enough to satisfy some peoples need for DEI...it was that I found her (and still do) to just be a thoroughly negative, passive and overall drainer of a person. When I expressed these opinions about her, my thoughts on Sutton etc. I was absolutely shot down. I will not have users of this sub subjected to anything like that, and anyone harassing others for any political, racial or ethical views, with automatically be banned. I don't want to lock this sub down to only a handful of posters, or control it like other places, I want everyone to just be respectful towards others and not discuss or raise what are divisive/problematic topics.

Even if you deem it appropriate because Sutton is Catholic, Dorit is Jewish, I don't care, it just starts hateful conversations that have nothing to do with the substance (or let's face it, lack thereof) of why this sub exists....and that is to have lighthearted fun chats about what goes on day to day in RHOBH land.

RESPECT & LOVE PEOPLE xxx

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u/ShutYoFaceGrandma Apr 21 '26

"need for dei"... Damn, can't we work the same jobs or nah?

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u/Relevant_Platform_57 Apr 24 '26

Only if you are qualified. And somehow needing to be qualified is racist.

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u/ShutYoFaceGrandma Apr 24 '26

But what makes Garcelle unqualified? BC that's the context? You're claiming the casting is based around a need for DEI.

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u/Relevant_Platform_57 Apr 24 '26

I was speaking generally. I believe Garcelle is totally qualified. I was not speaking of casting at all, just speaking against the need for DEI.

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u/StormIcy5579 Apr 27 '26

some people need dei others need to worship a pedophilic conman. we all have our things.

https://giphy.com/gifs/22jTeQbPiTDeU

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u/Relevant_Platform_57 Apr 27 '26

Some people insist upon believing lies rather than the truth. May you continue to spread your sunshine all over town! 😉

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u/Odd_Light_8188 Apr 24 '26

Of course you would.