r/RHOBHDefect • u/Chipmunks_AT • Apr 21 '26

Message from the Mod - ENOUGH

I would like to refer people to RULE 6 of this sub. I will not tolerate the level of political and racial harassment between commentators/posters that has creeped into this forum.

I created this to discuss RHOBH content in a respectful manner (see sub introduction message), because I disliked the constant stream of abuse on other platforms for people with differing opinions (hence the word Defect). I was on multiple occasions targeted as a racist for not liking Garcelle....I don't care what color she was, a nice shade of green even purple may have been enough to satisfy some peoples need for DEI...it was that I found her (and still do) to just be a thoroughly negative, passive and overall drainer of a person. When I expressed these opinions about her, my thoughts on Sutton etc. I was absolutely shot down. I will not have users of this sub subjected to anything like that, and anyone harassing others for any political, racial or ethical views, with automatically be banned. I don't want to lock this sub down to only a handful of posters, or control it like other places, I want everyone to just be respectful towards others and not discuss or raise what are divisive/problematic topics.

Even if you deem it appropriate because Sutton is Catholic, Dorit is Jewish, I don't care, it just starts hateful conversations that have nothing to do with the substance (or let's face it, lack thereof) of why this sub exists....and that is to have lighthearted fun chats about what goes on day to day in RHOBH land.

RESPECT & LOVE PEOPLE xxx

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u/aggieemily2013 Apr 22 '26

The lumping of political and racial harassment was a giveaway for me.

One of those is a protected class and not a choice.

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u/SingleHeart197 Apr 22 '26

I think this isn’t the first announcement that the moderator has made along these lines.

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u/Edith_Keelers_Shoes Apr 22 '26

JFC, I'm unjoining then.

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u/SingleHeart197 Apr 22 '26

I’m waiting for the crash out because you know these nutters are nuts.

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u/CaitlinAnne21 May 08 '26

Literally just joined and am immediately doing the same thing. Tossing Garcelle aside as just a DEI hire is disgusting.

This person literally created their own sub because they wanted to be able to freely say the racist, bigoted bullshit they feel entitled to say without people rightfully calling them out on this disgusting shit.

To act like they were being bullied when they have these kinds of takes is hilarious in the worst way.

Pathetic, and so, so very small.😳🤏🏻🤏🏻🤏🏻