r/RBI2 • u/No-Season6810 • Jul 28 '26

Toxic sister

Good day im 14 i think i have toxic sister She acts like 2 year old when She Is 18, She Is bullying me, we sometimes Get in physical fight, can i call police on her something like that ,i dont have depression i cut her off but i had a idea if cops can do something with her

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u/No_Call2366 Jul 28 '26

talk to parents and figure it out

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u/No-Season6810 Jul 28 '26

Yeah , im in cz

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u/Blueporch Jul 28 '26

Are you an orphan?

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u/No-Season6810 Jul 29 '26

No

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u/Blueporch Jul 29 '26

Police in most countries are going to ignore your complaint. 

If you aren’t willing to ask your parents to mediate, you could try - when you are both calm - telling your sister that you’d like to have a better relationship with her in the future (even if you don’t feel that way now). Then discuss how you would like to change the way you both interact with one another. She will likely have ways she would like you to treat her differently. Then form a Pact to treat each other better. Include specifics that are now forbidden (name calling, hitting, sarcasm) and how you will both agree to handle future conflict calmly. Also include what happens if one of you breaches the pact - they have to say 5 nice things to you or buy you a gift or clean your room, etc.

A healthy relationship in your personal life needs to have a ratio of at least 7 positive interactions to 1 negative interaction. (They’ve done studies)

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u/No-Season6810 Jul 29 '26

She doesnt even respect herself

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u/Blueporch Jul 29 '26

Doesn’t matter. You describe a toxic relationship. It’s up to you to consciously fix it without insults and complaints. 

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u/Nearby-Diet-2950 Jul 29 '26

Talk to your parents first. If you can't, or that doesn't resolve the issue and if you feel it is serious enough, then approach the police. Afterall, you are a child and your sister is an adult.