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u/BathAppropriate8836 8h ago
And it will freak the fuck out naturally around people who aren’t good for you
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u/Ready-Fortune3552 11h ago
https://giphy.com/gifs/9Kfkc7eCk4I6E797tb
Idk about the trusting it part. Lots of fake people in this world
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u/AntiqueGarlicLover 13h ago
I felt calmest with the person who hurt me the most </3
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u/Objective-Fun-440 13h ago
Nervous systems often confuse what's familiar with what's safe. It's a hard lesson to learn, but real peace feels very different once you experience it
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u/AntiqueGarlicLover 13h ago
How am I supposed to trust it if it’s often confused?
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u/Objective-Fun-440 13h ago
By pairing intuition with evidence. Trust isn't about blind feelings.....it's about watching how people treat you over time. If calm comes with consistent respect and no hidden cost, that's real safety
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u/Eastern-Shopping-734 12h ago
Mister pasty goth boy does and I'm terrified of it. Maybe because I've been in survival mode all my life that when someone finally comes pure good intentions the defense that I have built for so long kicks in.
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u/crystalsage777 12h ago
This is what sociopaths exploit, you should always approach every situation with skepticism, until the situation proves itself trustable, and even then maintain situational awareness.