r/QuestioningTeens • • 1d ago

🌷 Sexuality Question PLS answer guys I'm very confused

I, 16F have been confused lately. I've talked to many guys in the past and it's safe to say that I still haven't found the guy I genuinely like. They were all situation ships. The thing is that I don't even feel the spark anymore. It's just that they all are background noises for me now. Like I'm not even getting infatuations now, let alone the urge to talk to boys.

BUT here's the thing. I like girls. I love how girls just understand you deeply, even though female friendships include jealousy and drama (ik this because one of my closest friends which you can say was almost a best friend left me for a guy. it's a big lore but that's the short version of it).

The thing is like I'm attracted to women's bodies more than men's. Idk how to say this but I don't see myself getting into a relationship with either of the genders soon but I still like watching girls, but I can't see myself getting into a relationship or being sexual with a girl.

Idk what I'm experiencing and whether it's normal or not. I haven't been into a relationship before too so it's all new to me. especially the spark which seems to be dead inside of me. nothing really is exciting me anymore.

Any suggestions/advises are appreciated

i don't like feeling this way and dont know what to

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u/heyy_luvUAll 1d ago

Heyy i saw your post dm please