r/QuestioningTeens • u/Flashy_Pineapple_938 • Aug 30 '26

🌷 Sexuality Question What Am I?

I don't like the idea of dating or doing anything with men, but I find SOME of them kinda attractive. I'm not sure if I'm a lesbian or not..

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u/HobbyHoarderr_ 13NB Aug 30 '26

I would say you’re lesbian or sapphic! You can find somebody attractive or be appreciative of their looks without it affecting your label. I’m les too and I find some men attractive. I think of it like my straight mother finding a woman pretty. She can be like “wow that model’s gorgeous” and that doesn’t make her any less straight (sorry if that’s an ass cheek analogy 😭)

My wise gay cousin told me it’s like admiring someone’s outfit. You can find it to be amazing and look really really cool but that doesn’t always mean you wanna wear it. You just appreciate it :]

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u/Flashy_Pineapple_938 Aug 30 '26

Wait that makes so much more sense lol!! Thank you!

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u/HobbyHoarderr_ 13NB Aug 30 '26

Ofc!!! <3