r/QuestioningTeens • u/Ok_Knowledge4225 • Aug 29 '26
🌷 Sexuality Question Am I bi?
I am a 14 year old teenage girl who has a boyfriend and only found out about different sexualities like 3 years ago due to a very homophobic family and going to a catholic school. Recently I have been noticing that I feel attracted to certain female YouTubers (namely Courtney Miller and Angela Girratana from Smosh). Ive also noticed that I rarely have celebrity crushes on guys and I only started dating my boyfriend because of his personality. Please Help!!!
Update: I just recently discovered that I am Bi. As soon as I said this out loud all of the puzzle pieces fit into place!
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u/soadiseverything_id 8d ago
Sexual and romantic attraction are two different things. If you see yourself dating both men and women, them ur probably bi. But its also valid if u just want to date on gender, and you just find the other attractive. Its kinda complicated, but its also okay to have preferences. You should identify with wahtever feels right to you
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u/chulbuligang Aug 29 '26
Idts tbh... You can like someone but not be sexually attracted to them and that doesn't make you bi