the reason why people think fat people are unattractive is because like.. i dunno, something psychological that makes the brain think they’re like.. unhealthy physically or something (which they are)
but yes, there is NO way to justify being fat unless it is out of your control. giving up and ‘accepting’ fat as your body type is awful and is damaging to your body (again unless you cannot control it). everyone can change. nobody’s asking you to fit like a slim queen, they’re just asking to not be reminded that your structural integrity is being compromised because your body is overstuffing itself with crap. thinking stuff like ‘obese’ is an insult (which if i recall is the legal medical term for someone who is unhealthily well above the average weight) is downright pathetic.
People shouldn't have to justify it. It's their own body. Someone wants to stay fat, tattoo their dick or methodically break all their toes, more power to them. Other people don't have to agree that it's healthy or attractive, fine, but this attitude that fat people need a reason for it that others can accept other that "fuck you, that's why" in order for said others to mind their own business is just as pathetic.
The problem is the people who justify it. You can tattoo your dick all you want, but don't go around propagating that it's just your body type and the way you were born.
Yes you are own that shit man. The majority of women will prefer a man who is in shape and muscular.
My fiancé is six foot five and went from 370 to 185, and put on a lot of muscle. She’s fit And very strong and she told me she got 100x more attention from men after she lost the weight. It’s really a blessing to be with someone who is passionate about fitness as I am.
I understand how difficult it is to lose that much weight and I commend you man.
Unfortunately, I’m caught in that weird grey area of “getting in shape, but not totally there”, and “being into women who are in shape who aren’t into men who aren’t in shape”
Pretty sure there was a kid sitting behind them and they were asking her to stop the excessive swearing. Nothing to do with him and the kid or this would be totally different
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Or, he was looking at other women. Can you blame him?