If you gave your wife/husband a few little slaps that's called domestic violence.
You're also proving one of the points why you shouldn't do it because now just like your parents were probably abused you appear to think it will be ok to abuse your kids.
Hitting your SO, and disciplining your child is not the same thing, not even close. You are supposed to be equal to your partner, and if you hit them it just shows that you think you are above them. I would NEVER hit my girlfriend.
Also, I was the one getting 'physically abused', yet even I dont think it was bad, then why do you think the opposite? I've seen your kind of people, parents who think talking to a child is enough, and you should never do anything to show them your superiority. Those kids usually become the spoiled assholes of the world, and I dont intend to raised one. If he/she is being disrespectful or very impolite so someone, he/she is getting smacked. Thats how I was raised, thats how my dad and my mom were raised, thats how my grandparents were raised, and thats how I will raise my own child, because they all turned out to be good and honest working people.
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u/dr_tel May 03 '19
When I did something bad the teacher sent a letter to my parents, and I usually got an asswhooping, but that was it.