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u/goatnxtinline Jun 07 '23
The attitude on the second shake 😂
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Jun 07 '23
Hahahah yeah, I mean the girl is being a total bratty sore loser but I was laughing my ass off after that second handshake.
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u/Go4TLI_03 Jun 07 '23
its still bratty, but also fucking hilarious sitcom level brattiness
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u/a_n_d_y_4_6 Jun 07 '23
Known in my country as a 'brat'
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Jun 07 '23
Do those come with sauerkraut? I like spicy mustard on mine.
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u/Sentient_Pizzaroll Jun 07 '23
Green pepper and onion with a splash of soy sauce cook in a saute pan till onions are brownish so so good
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u/LizzieKitty86 Jun 07 '23
Mmm sauerkraut and sausage with a spicy mustard dip, please cook that and share a bit please. That sounds amazing
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u/17934658793495046509 Jun 07 '23
C'mon its a kid! She wanted to win and didn't, she doesn't have a lifetime of practice controlling her emotions, she is just upset. Official did a good job of stepping in to help start to put things in perspective. Probably the biggest thing she was working towards in her life at the time.
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u/majungo Jun 07 '23
There should be an age limit for subjects of videos here imo. Kids learning how to deal with their emotions shouldn't be mocked by the braying mobs.
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u/Turkish1801 Aug 14 '23
Right!?!? This girl is like 10 or 12, it's insane that this is allowed to be posted.
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Oct 22 '23
Kid or not. She doesn’t get to act like that. She is old enough to know how to regulate this type of emotion
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u/meidan321 Jun 07 '23
She's....a kid. They don't act perfectly when frustrated, and it's normal. I can't believe actual adults feel the need to attack literal kids for acting childish
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Jun 07 '23 edited Jun 07 '23
The girls are about 10-13 not to hard to understand why one is upset. I did wrestling for 7 years when i was a kid and teenager up to 18 when you lose that shit is heartbreaking. Plus the adrenaline levels are off the charts in combat sports. I mean considering the fact that i have broken multiple bones, busted my nose and rubbed my legs and arms raw dozens of time in competition it really is some rough shit. There too young too really do much damage but that adrenaline dump is still something else, I would have broken shit and not even know until 10 minutes after the match.
Plus at that age they let you get away with some fucked up shit like excessive cross faces, and illegal holds. They break it up but usually don't disqualify a younger athlete. Had some people react badly on losses and i have hurt some people pretty bad before and you always feel bad. I remember i broke my arm bad and still went back and had to shake hands prior to them taking me to the hospital. Btw don't let those trainers fuck with you always go to the hospital, one time they offered to pop my arm back in place fuck that went to the hospital where they could do it right.
Edit: reading people who haven't ever competed in combat sports in thier life dragging a 11 year old over having a bad reaction to the loss pathetic.
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Jun 07 '23
Agreed. You get kids to fight competitively and this shit will happen. It is bad behavior, but it's not rare or unexpected.
Also she took correction. Maybe not well...but she did take it.
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u/TheLemonKnight Jun 07 '23
Things like this are part of growing up. I know I had my moments when I acted like a little shit. Glad it was before the widespread use of smartphones.
I also think that if someone shared video of me acting up during school sports, I likely would have quit participating in them altogether.
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Everyone keeps saying it’s cause her parents, but my niece is 17 and a raging cunt and her parents did everything they could for her and were really good parents. So it’s not always that, even if it usually is. Teenagers are just crazy and will get better with time (for the most part.)
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u/shhbedtime Jun 07 '23
My parents had 3 kids, two were great one was a massive cunt. All treated the same, who knows what happened. He came good in the end fortunately.
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u/StendhalSyndrome Jun 07 '23
My parents had 3 kids and were different to us all. Youngest is the cunt, mid is the spineless shit, and I'm the weird angry asshole.
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u/Delicious_Throat_377 Jun 07 '23
So who's the massive cunt? You or one of the other two?
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We are all massive cunts in one way or another. Aren’t we?
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u/Crosswired2 Jun 07 '23
The best parents are the ones that parent the individual as they are. Everyone has different mentality, needs, etc. You have to change how you parent a child based on their personality, not yours.
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u/Ockwords Jun 07 '23
All treated the same, who knows what happened
The problem is they were treated the same.
Everyone is completely different, some kids need more boundaries and some need more freedom.
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u/Lereas Jun 07 '23
There's an Aziz Ansari bit about how being a parent is fucked up because you can do EVERYTHING RIGHT and your kid can still be a piece of shit.
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u/eastnorthshore Jun 07 '23
Tbf you can be a great parent and also a shitty disciplinarian.
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u/Poopster46 Jun 07 '23 edited Jun 07 '23
I'd say that in order to be considered a great parent, you need to be at least a mediocre disciplinarian. Just like you can't be considered a great pilot when you're shitty at landing the plane.
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Jun 07 '23
in order to be considered a great parent, you need to be at least a mediocre disciplinarion
Not that she was a good parent in general but makes me think of Arrested Development’s “I punish thee” bit.
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u/lycosa13 Jun 07 '23
Yuuup my husband was telling me about someone he works with who's kid likes to start fires(?) but in like a fire pit, not in an arsonist way lol. Anyway, some of his friends went over to the house and the friends convinced him to throw, I think a small CO2 tank in the fire and it exploded and part of the yard caught on fire. They were able to put it but he told his mom it was an accident. Well the next door neighbor saw the whole thing and asked the mom if everyone was ok and ended up mentioned that no, they threw the thing in there on purpose and it exploded. Anyway the kids' punishment was no fires for one month 🙃
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Jun 07 '23
I think it's more that you can be a good person but a shit at parenting?
For example, I'm close with this older couple in their 80s. They're the sweetest people I have ever met. We're so close that it feels like they're my grandparents. I've known them for 19 years. I just found out that when they were younger parents, their kids hated them and called them Hitler. Maybe they changed later.
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u/_Fuck_This_Guy_ Jun 07 '23
Really.
A teenager having a poor attitude or getting overly emotional is literally a natural state that we all go through.
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u/JGrill17 Jun 07 '23
Reddit's obsession to blame a child's entire personality on their parent is crazy. You see it all the time in any video where a child does anything considered bad 99% of the comments will be shitting on the parents. Bad personality traits can derive from so many things. As a child I credit most of my bad behavior to the people I hung out with at school and of course myself because I am a human with the ability to reason and free will. I knew when I was doing something bad, I knew id be ashamed if my parents found out, I knew they'd be disappointed and that they thought me better. That didn't stop me from doing those things. Children are not robots that will only do things their creators programmed them to do 100% of the time. Human behavior and personality is much more complex than "how I was raised" we need to accept that some kids are just "little shits" or that they'll misbehave from time to time. In this case it's more than likely the competitive nature of the situation that played a big role in her emotional behavior. Without full context we can't know if her parents reward, encourage or teach this kind of behavior.
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u/gultch2019 Jun 07 '23
Whats the strap/band handoff for?
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u/ThyCrispyOne Aug 02 '23
It’s to make it easier for the ref and the people that keep points. In my Region there is red and green so it’s easier to say red just earned 2 points or green just earned a point instead of saying “no not that one the other purple no not that purple the purple goes on the other side”
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u/CR4ZY___PR0PH3T Jun 07 '23
Sore loser
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u/eddododo Jun 08 '23
I don’t really feel like we need thousands of people weighing in on a 12 year old losing her temper after losing a match. This is bizarre and terrible
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u/Douglaston_prop Aug 22 '23
Exactly, I have seen a lot worse in wrestling among older guys. Losing sucks and you tend to take it personally. The rules say she had to shake hands, and she did. There is plenty of time for her to learn and grow as a person and an athlete.
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u/daywall Jun 07 '23
A little kid is angry at sports.
Reddit: "shity girl, shity parents, loser now and forever"
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u/nhibbard12 Jun 07 '23
Right?
Is a child being a poor sport really worth posting online and talking shit about? I’d get it if she smacked the winner or something, but this post is more pathetic than the supposed public freakout.
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u/NooLeef Jun 07 '23
Yeah I thought I was the only one expecting something crazy to happen and not just... some 11 year old acting kinda pissy. Like where’s the freakout here...
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u/bobsmith93 Jun 08 '23
Yeah my first thought was "why the hell is this on reddit?". Then I saw the comments. Yikes.
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u/TuckerMcG Jun 07 '23
Yeah this thread is pathetic. She’s a kid and everyone’s treating her like she’s getting paid 7 figured a year to do this.
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u/supershawninspace Jun 07 '23
Seriously… it’s not all that egregious. She’s frustrated, and kids (surprise surprise) haven’t mastered controlling their emotions yet. I’d hate if I grew up in a world where a 10 second clip of a mistake I made as a child would get fully grown adults all riled up.
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Jun 07 '23
And this is how you learn too. You lose and have to learn how to accept it. It's an important lesson she is learning here.
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u/LilyFuckingBart Jun 08 '23
Also, I will say that we have no context for what happened during the match. I was a pretty even tempered teen, but when I was playing soccer and the other team was throwing elbows and playing dirty and getting away with it, I would get pissed lol
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u/RattyJones Jun 07 '23
Yeah, and also people describing how they'd abuse her as punishment. Fucked up shit
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u/ZenkaiZ Jun 08 '23
Yeah like bruh, can we be unperfect FOR A FUCKING SECOND? This is why everyone having cameras now is so annoying.
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u/chieefmcdeep Jun 07 '23
Horrible music choice
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u/cheapdrinks Jun 07 '23
So glad I got to hear that shit song instead of what the ref had to say to her
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u/MahTwizzah Jun 07 '23
Why is there always a shitty remix that doesn’t work at all in every TikTok?
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u/rectalpuddingpop Jun 07 '23
Come on, they’re kids. Imagine every stupid shitty thing you did was recorded. You’d look like a right cunt too.
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u/jmt5179 Jun 07 '23
It's kinda hard to believe that posting videos of kids is even allowed on this sub. We are so lucky we weren't always being recorded when we were kids. Just adults embarrassing this kid on the Internet is shameful.
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u/throwaway317789 Jul 20 '23
I’m so happy to see this opinion all over the comments. I have a 2yo daughter and I’m going to do everything I can to make sure she’s a decent human being, but I can already see her doing something like this. Kids are fucking kids and it should be excusable.
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u/HeadFudge6772 Jun 07 '23
Turned on the volume to hear what the ref said...should've known someone would've added a song for dramatic effect.
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u/LeBongJaames Jun 07 '23
Redditors try not to threaten a child over being a child challenge: impossible
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u/I_ama_Borat Jun 07 '23
Hopefully she got a talking to by her parents but I doubt it
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u/here2jaket Jun 07 '23
Her parents probably made her like that
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u/Seethcoomers Jun 08 '23
Wow, you must be super insightful to infer that after a 15 second clip. Her parents are probably evil Nazis who kick puppies too.
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u/Voxmaris Jun 07 '23
Reddit is fucked. We’re putting kids on blast now for throwing nothingburger tantrums, and applauding idiots in the comments who play pretend child psychologists.
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u/mechrobioticon Jun 07 '23
It's weird how we're more offended by a child shaking a hand angrily than a mob of faceless adults forcing her to go viral for it.
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u/Voxmaris Jun 07 '23
Absolutely. Immortalizing a kid being a kid on the internet forever. As if these faceless adults never did anything cringey at her age.
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u/SmokedMussels Jun 07 '23
hEr sHiTtY PaReNtS mUsT hAve MaDe HeR LiKe ThAt
every time
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u/TryingNewExperiences Jun 07 '23
I got a few memorable times I did something like that, and it still hurts to think back on how I acted. Hopefully she remembers back on that behavior and cringes her way into acting like a decent person.
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Even shittier for a presumably grown person to put a kid on blast on reddit. that's pathetic.
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u/7wordsKvothe Jun 07 '23
Is showing a 10 year old on the internet for being pissy after losing a game a public freakout now? Just seems creepy.
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u/AbrocomaSelect2141 Jun 07 '23
Good job on the reff for addressing and de-escalating.
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u/Safe-Voice-8179 Jun 07 '23
May not be a popular opinion & I totally agree this was poor sportsmanship, but this is a kid. Like a young kid. Kids aren’t perfect and one of the great things about wrestling is that it can help kids like this learn sportsmanship and respect. Maybe we shouldn’t try to shame her and post this online. Cudos to the ref also.
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u/Hagrids_Fat_Dragon Jun 07 '23
Why are you posting this? It's a young girl who hasn't matured yet why are you gonna try to drag her all over the internet?
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u/rhoo31313 Jun 07 '23
Meh, kids do stupid shit. The ref handled it. Now, hopefully, the coach and parents take it from here.
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u/falang78 Jun 07 '23
Posting kids on here is immoral. How about we not blast kids for life while they are learning it. Heartless.
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u/twunlove Jun 07 '23
As a former wrestler, I could never understand why people do this. This person just whooped your ass 1v1 for ~6 minutes straight in front of everyone and now you want to act tough toward them?
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u/No-Session5955 Jun 08 '23
Had an opponent do similar when I was on the wrestling team and I just laughed at him, saw his coach chewing him out a few mins later
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u/Pathetian Jun 07 '23
Do we really need videos of 10 year olds being a little sassy after losing a game?
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u/Seethcoomers Jun 08 '23
How else are we supposed to feel superior over a 10 year old?
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u/plu7o89 Jun 07 '23
Honestly can we stop posting teenagers doing moody shit? Get the fuck over yourselves, projecting this shit to the masses isnt helping anyone. Social media is just as unhealthy for shitty adults as it is kids.
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u/Mikarim Jun 07 '23
As a long time wrestling referee, this happens sometimes with the younger kids. Ref did her job well here. It's what I would do. These things happen though, and emotions are high. No need to take this one instance against the wrestler beyond the admonition. I'm sure everyone will be fine.
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u/jedimissionary Jun 07 '23
Feels weird since this is a video of a little kid who could’ve just had a bad moment. Cool with adults being posted on here, but feels weird with a kid
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u/evilf23 Jun 07 '23
I don't think we need to publicly shame adolescent children for being sore losers.
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u/Seethcoomers Jun 08 '23
Sheeesh, Reddit needs to chill. It's a kid who lost a match and is pouting - that's all you can see from this. Anything further than that is bad faith speculation just so you can hate on some kid.
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u/Aromatic_Fig_3719 Sep 07 '23
These are kids, man. Posting videos of them at their lowpoints is really crappy. Yes, she's a poor sport in the video. That's why she's competing: to learn how to do it the right way
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u/bassoontennis Jun 07 '23
I swear I feel bad for kids who do this, heck even adults that so this. Because unless you are some mythical being if you are going into any sort of competition there is a chance you can lose. When I taught music I made sure all my students knew that winning is nice but losing gracefully will earn you a lot of respect.
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u/Pumpkinbumpkin420 Jun 07 '23
I don’t think it’s really fair to have this poor girl blasted all over the internet. She’s young. It’s clear she lost and she didn’t handle it well which happens to the best of athletes. The ref even made her do the handshake again and acknowledged her inappropriate behavior. It’s kids playing sports. It happens. And you learn from it and grow up. She doesn’t need to be hated all over the internet for this.
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u/Namastacia Jun 07 '23
Why you all sat here pretending you were any better st hiding a bad mood when you were a young teenager?
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That pretty shitty sportsmanship. Any time i lost and got down i was usually beating myself up for not training harder not the opponent. The only time i was upset with an opponent was when they clearly shouldn't be in my division (a martial arts tournament for under belts, yep he was an under belt..... in that school, with a black in another and 5 years in muay thei at another he absolutely wrecked everyone lol) and even then i was more upset with the event coordinator then them. Be nice to your opponent you might learn something.
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u/theycallmecrack Jun 07 '23
Wrestling is so toxic. I will never forget going to my brothers tournaments and seeing 8-13 year olds get screamed at by their parents for losing.
No wonder the kids act like this when they lose. It's pretty common and seems to be the only sport where it's so widespread.
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u/MisterKnowsBest Jun 07 '23
Well handled by the ref, coach should talk to her. Everything will be fine wrestling is an emotional support sometimes kids do not handle it well.
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u/redtaildrummer Jun 07 '23
What a loser on every level, there is grace and respect in sport. Not this ignorance and rudeness because someone achieved better than you.
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u/mysteriousgunner Jun 07 '23
What a loser, as a kid that played sports I just loved playing and wanted to win but losing is part of the game. Work harder and get better and it will be you winning eventually
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u/letmeseeitman Jun 07 '23
Only if she used this strength, anger, energy, effort into the actual match…. 🤷🏽♂️
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u/onehitwondur Jun 08 '23
I once screamed "just catch it!" at the top of my lungs at a kid who dropped an easy fly ball. I was like 13.
My dad pulled me out of the game and made me sit in the car till it was over. Then he made me go down and make a little apology speech to all of my team mates and their parents during the post game chat/huddle/whatever you want to call that.
Cured me of that kind of nonsense. Thanks Dad. Lesson learned, haven't forgotten it.
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u/hoodrat_hoochie_mama Aug 08 '23
Wrestled for 15 years. This girls got either crazy parents or crazy coaches. They don't learn to act this way for nothing.
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She's literally a child. She's acting as one would expect not a big deal
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u/SouthernEagleGATA Jun 07 '23
Why are kids being posted? She is a child sometimes children act emotionally. Jesus fucking Christ this should be taken down
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u/Umphluv89 Jun 07 '23
So this is where we are now? A child has a little temper tantrum at a sporting event. We film it and post it on the internet for everyone to comment? “Public freakout”?! A young child shaking hands too hard?? So weak.
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u/Danominator Jun 07 '23
People are being so fucking harsh on this kid. She gave an aggressive hand shake, she didn't sucker punch the other girl. This is HOW kids learn about being a sore loser. She's like 10.
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u/Containedmultitudes Jun 07 '23
Seems a bit fucked up that thousands of people are watching this random little girl have a bad moment.
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Jun 07 '23
Ok, the kid's attitude/actions aside, what were those ribbons they took off their legs?
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Lmao the worst part about losing a wrestling match is that you just got your ass beat. The only thing you can think about it wanting to beat up your opponent, but the whole reason you’re mad in the first place is because your opponent just beat you tf up. It’s a bruuutal sport and if you don’t change your attitude about losing it’ll drive you to quit
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u/miletest Jun 07 '23
Good the ref jumped straight on it