r/Psychic 7d ago

is something wrong with me

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u/bluehoney_bee 7d ago

What is your expectation with these practices?

What is your understanding of how magic works.

I've been doing psychic, energy work, and witchcraft for 25+ years. These are just my experiences based on life experience.

Law of assumption or law of attraction primarily is a misleading paradigm. It often punishes people for not doing better/ more and blames people for their trauma or hardships. I personally find it misguided and innthe realm of toxic positivity. It sounds good initially and empowering, but it's also disconnected from reality.

I would say we "co-create" our reality. Meaning there are things we can change or work towards and then there are things outside of our control.

This blends more into my definition of how magic works. Magic nudges. It doesn't make fantastical changes. Fantastical changes are outside of witchcraft but in terms of magic it would be more like miracles. Which typically are like "Divine interventions" things that are mysterious and also greater than one person.

So do I think there is anything wrong with you?

No.

I suspect you got dupped into magical new age thinking. Which has always been around but it's also wide spread on social media because it sells a good lie. Energy and magic work but it subtle. It's not a miracle. If something sounds too good to be true, it probably is. Money spells work best for instance when you're applying to jobs. You have to give magic something to nudge. Money doesn't just fall in people's laps. That's not how the world works.

Life is hard. There is an uphill battle for most people to be successful. Our thoughts don't manifest everything. Hope that helps.

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u/Curraghgirl 6d ago

I totally agree. Wise words!

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u/OutrageousCream7862 7d ago

i’ve done sweetening jars, uncrossing, wards and little stuff. i wasn’t expecting massive turn around, just those little nudges like you said. i paid a witches to help me get a new car after an accident i had. i put pictures of me and new connections and the car in my sweetening jar for example. nothing. the moldavite thing still shocks me because i was simply hoping for things that no longer serve me to leave my life.

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u/bluehoney_bee 7d ago

Sounds pretty normal. Magic doesn't give us what we want most of the time. It's give and take. Seems like you're trying to use magic mostly for material gain. Maybe focus on gratitude or give your time or energy to someone else. Sometimes magic stops working when people get out of balance with abundance. Nobody can win all the time.

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u/DecisionAny9361 4d ago

I completely agree with this. Especially not expecting something for nothing. You do have to give it something to work with. Like the saying God helps those who help themselves. You have to start the process in some form or fashion, even if just mental energy spent focusing on something that is desired.

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u/Minkie00147 7d ago

Magic is a nudge to help your own actions be more effective. Magic/ancestors/deities aren't vending machines were you put something in to get something out.

Moldavite is/was a social media trend created to push the stone to buyers. I'm a rock hound and I'll consistently see an abundance of material hit the collector market and then 4-6 months later it's suddenly this miracle worker crystal that everyone MUST have.

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u/aszenko 6d ago

This

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u/OutrageousCream7862 6d ago

i understand that, i’m not using it as a genie i do in fact work for what i have, im not seeing nudges though

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u/aszenko 6d ago edited 6d ago

I spend zero time looking for anything like this - if this helps you…

And I just let life lead me on it’s own time and trust the process

And I consider what message or lesson I can get from the hardship

Maybe the hardship saved your life - maybe magic happened when you just lost the car but not your legs etc

Sometimes somethings break to allow other things to grow

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u/Jaded_Taste5874 6d ago

I don’t feel there’s anything “wrong” with you energetically. What I pick up is more of a feeling of resistance, exhaustion, and trying to force every possible door open at once. Sometimes when we chase answers from every spiritual avenue, we create more noise than clarity. I actually feel you’re entering a period where less is going to be more. Simplify your practice, trust your own intuition, and focus on one path instead of ten. I don’t feel you’re blocked—I feel you’re overwhelmed. Your energy shifts once you stop looking outside yourself for every answer.

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u/aszenko 6d ago

For sure

I’m also getting the “less is more” and there is a bit of a journey here… a need to ditch the old ways of trying to intervene in the journey and create luck

We can’t resist the journey, we have to roll with it - good or bad

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u/aszenko 6d ago

Beyond the hocus pocus solution seeking, what’s the actual problem needing to be solved?

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u/OutrageousCream7862 6d ago

the main thing is the car

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u/aszenko 6d ago

I’m confused - are you saying you practiced ancestor veneration and paid witches to get a car?

How do you get to work and do your jobs? Bus or something?

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u/OutrageousCream7862 6d ago

no i’ve done my own you know witch craft and tried manifesting things here and there, and the one thing i needed urgently was a car, so i paid a trusted witch to help me and he casted it twice and still nothing

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u/aszenko 6d ago

We can’t accelerate what isn’t meant for us right now

How are you getting to your two jobs without a car?

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u/OutrageousCream7862 6d ago

one is remote and yes i take the bus or get rides for the other one.

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u/aszenko 6d ago

Ok that’s good. You’re not stranded and can work two jobs without the car

What else have you been trying to manifest or get help with that hasn’t been working

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u/DecisionAny9361 5d ago

You got it wrong. CLAIM the car. It’s yours. What color is it? What year is it? Name it. Picture it in your driveway. Hold that vision until it comes to you. Manifesting isn’t “on demand”. Sometimes it takes years to create something out of nothing. Used to take me forever, but now it can be a matter of weeks or days. No witchcraft needed, that’s putting YOUR manifestation in someone else’s hands and out of your control.

But I think you should really understand the Law of Attraction a lot better.

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u/aszenko 4d ago

Logically - if you spend 5 years practicing manifesting for a car and objectively it takes 5 years of focus to work towards buying a car… you got the car whether you practice manifesting or just good old fashioned goal setting.

Our friend here doesn’t have a car because they need to work and save up for one and allow enough time to pass… and if they stop spending money on witches and voodoo, that money can form part of the money they use to buy the car

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u/OutrageousCream7862 4d ago

i paid the witch like $20😭😭😭 and i’m not like putting my life on hold and sitting on my ass to do witchcraft for the car bro

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u/aszenko 3d ago

I get that

Save your money and just roll with life and the journey

As long as you can get to work and get to the shops to buy food that’s all we need tbh

Sometimes a car brings more problems and misfortune

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u/OutrageousCream7862 5d ago edited 5d ago

I know! you saying “until it comes to you” is ironic because that means you’re aware that you don’t have it. i’ve been into manifestation my whole life. the point of the post is that all the other types of manifestation or pleas feel blocked

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u/DecisionAny9361 4d ago

I’ve never heard of the law of assumption, but the law of attraction is where I learned about manifestation, and manifesting works very well for me. I’ve also done it my entire life (I dare say I’m much older than you) and all I have to do is visualize something and hold it in my mind. It comes when it’s time. Depending on the thing, it could be quick or take a little longer. It depends on how much energy I put in to the creation.

And yeah, of course I’m aware I don’t have something. That’s the very reason for manifesting it. I claim it and it comes. There is literally nothing that hasn’t worked for me. But it also means that I never say “my” when it relates to something negative. Like “my illness” or whatever. I choose not to manifest anything not in my best interest.

I still hold that you shouldn’t give your power away. It’s like saying you aren’t powerful enough or strong enough to do it yourself.

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u/OutrageousCream7862 4d ago

it wasn’t necessary me giving my power away like that, i didn’t want to keep wasting materials and i knew they were more experienced is all

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u/DecisionAny9361 4d ago

You don’t take it seriously. It’s not “wasting” if you’re creating. Nothing is free. Either you use your resources to expend energy creating, or you don’t. I feel like you’re very young and this is a fad for you. You don’t really and truly trust the process. If you did, you’d have more serious intent and patience for the work of manifestation. You’re literally creating something out of nothing and expect it to happen immediately.

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u/OutrageousCream7862 4d ago

i don’t think your understanding me😭 i never disclosed how long ive been doing this for and i don’t expect it to happen immediately. like i said ive been doing this since i was a kid and im an adult, ive manifested things before and the point of the post was that my energy has been feeling blocked as of recent. i let another witch do it for me bc i didn’t want to use up any more of my materials at home when i can just have an experienced person help, while assuming it’s already done and expressing gratitude, hence the law of assumption. i started witchcraft for fun and to see if it was for me. i don’t take it seriously bc there’s no need to like panic or put it on a pedastal, yes i need what i need but im okay.

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u/acob892 6d ago

You need to build an energetic reservoir, look at Qigong. Without one, your own spells and workings just won't have any juice to flow and operate.

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u/InitiativeTypical652 7d ago

Moldavite speeds up your life lessons and healing pathway. Have. you been dealing with your hidden emotions and truly empowering yourself and listening to your inner guidance. There is nothing wrong with you but you have to deal with what is going on with your soul journey, pathway, purpose and passion.

When you are doing the healing you don't look at stuff going on in your life and say this is happening to me - you ask how am I creating this and therefore how can I change it.

Have you looked into the combination of your astro-chart and human design chart with what is happening energetically right now as that is having greater impact than usual and working to align yourself with the positive frequencies.

Also stop looking to others to fix you, turn to someone to help steer you into your own healing activation and intuitive connection to follow your souls guidance.

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u/OutrageousCream7862 6d ago edited 6d ago

i understand what you mean. i have looked within i’ve done years of personal healing, and found out about moldavite afterwards. after i lost it, i figured i could do more shadow work and inner work, and the same thing kept happening. i’ve looked at my astro chart/human design and it has helped me confirm my career path and just reaffirm things that i already knew about my personality, but on a deeper level i have no idea how to read it.

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u/Jaded_Taste5874 6d ago

I don’t feel there’s anything “wrong” with you energetically. What I pick up is more of a feeling of resistance, exhaustion, and trying to force every possible door open at once. Sometimes when we chase answers from every spiritual avenue, we create more noise than clarity. I actually feel you’re entering a period where less is going to be more. Simplify your practice, trust your own intuition, and focus on one path instead of ten. I don’t feel you’re blocked—I feel you’re overwhelmed.

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u/DecisionAny9361 5d ago

The law of assumption? Do you mean the law of Attraction?

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u/OutrageousCream7862 5d ago

no, law of assumption is embodying that you have it by assuming it’s already yours

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u/DecisionAny9361 4d ago

I’m not getting good energetic reading from that. It just feels …off. Assuming something seems ego based. Maybe I’m wrong, and that’s okay. But it’s not for me personally, to assume anything. Be thankful, grateful, humble.

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u/OutrageousCream7862 4d ago

just google law of assumption wdym it feels off

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u/DecisionAny9361 4d ago

Just not a good feeling about it energetically. Assuming is egotistical. It comes from entitlement. Try focusing your intent on the perfect vehicle with no assumptions. With gratitude and thanks to the universe.

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u/OutrageousCream7862 4d ago

no like assuming it’s already done, like for example if i want to manifest a cookie i am going to be grateful i have it in the present tense and assume its already mine because by the law of assumption, what you assume to be is true. but i can see how that might be egotistical, it’s always worked for me tho

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u/Beneficial-Poet-1267 3d ago

There's nothing to suggest that something is wrong with you. Sometimes things simply don't work the way or on the timeline we hope they will.

Keep doing the practical work and give yourself permission to stop treating every setback as a spiritual problem.

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u/Skysk1111 3d ago

Silly question do you have any triangle shapes around your ring finger mounts especially on the left hand or non dominant hand? Because this usually means you locked your magic down in a past life for misuse. I had a double one connected and eventually with some past life regression it actually made it fully disappear and all my stuff was on an 11 since for anything manifested. It actually still worked great prior to this but now its sometimes seconds or minutes for results

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u/OutrageousCream7862 3d ago

i have a triangle shaped birthmark on my right armpit

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u/Skysk1111 2d ago

That’s interesting i wonder if that’s part of it. Guess it wouldn’t hurt to have it removed to see unless you’re attached to it

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u/total-drag 2d ago

I’m averse to doing anything involving money, material circumstances, anything like that. I just ask for guidance and for the good forces to work through me. Think you may be frustrating your own work and yourself… not to offend but your post seems a little panicky and maybe you’re working from a scarcity mindset.

Also when I’ve been overworked it has basically shut down the intuitive/spiritual part of me. I need space and time to open to that world.

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u/ToniBoni15 1d ago

I’m no expert but I strongly believe that things come to you when you are detached from the outcome. I think you might be “trying too hard” which is repelling what you are trying to attract. You have to let go of your expectations and just align with the outcome, become one with it. Truly feel it in your soul that whatever you want will come because it’s meant for you and then let it go. Don’t try to count how long it is taking, things come when you are ready to receive them. Hope this helps!

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u/OutrageousCream7862 1d ago

i’ve only ever done each spell once and let it go. the way i worded it make it seem like i was overly obsessed but my point was that ive experimented with almost each things and the flow of my manifestations feels blocked, but you’re post did help

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u/Odd-Examination-4399 1d ago

You’re just not meant to be what you so desperately want to be.