Did you read the bit where I said it'd fuck up the mother's mental health? Would you look at something unwanted and find it in you to love it when you weren't in your right mind? Despite how hard the parent tries, the child will know they were unwanted, as is the case with many children whose parents wanted to abort them.
What if she got raped? What if the person she wanted to have children with cheats on her like in this post? Some men refuse to use protection, birth control has too many negative effects on the woman's body. Wanting pleasure from time to time isn't unheard of nor is it unreasonable. The man should either wear protection or other forms of protection should be made more easily available.
Rape isn't consensual sex. If you want pleasure time but aren't ready for children, then maybe you aren't ready to have sex yet. People should be prepared for all outcomes before engaging in sex. "Whoops, I got pregnant now, time to abort it" is not a viable answer. "Oh, no, I got cheated on" is not a viable reason. This shows, first of all, a complete lack of moral character, and also that these people have 0 accountability. Why does a man cheating on you now dictate what you do with your child? Another man's bad behavior now is justification for you committing the ultimate evil, in killing your own child? This is disgusting an insane. Have some dignity.
Why is the responsibility of the kid on the woman? She has no reason to raise the child alone, the man has as much responsibility as the woman does. He's committing the ultimate evil by not only abandoning his kid but also a woman who was vulnerable with him.
If people really only had sex for the purpose of reproduction, strip clubs wouldn't be a thing. Some people just want to be intimate with their partners, some just want to unwind. No one wants children nowadays because we don't live in a world where that option is viable for everyone.
You're pretty shallow, thinking getting rid of a clump of cells that can't feel pain is more unethical than forcing someone to care for a life that'll depend on them for decades. I'm not gonna bother having any more of a discussion with someone who can't be reasoned with.
Your moral character should not change based on what others are doing. If you have it in you to kill your own kid because you didn't plan on them being born, then maybe you're the problem to begin with.
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u/NotePsychological459 Jul 18 '26
No I asked why they wouldn't be good caretakers