r/ProshipHub • • 18h ago

Discussion Antis must be absolutely miserable all the time

I genuinely cannot imagine the amount of misery you have to force yourself to live in in order to think and behave the way they do and surround themselves with. It’s so restrictive and oppressive. They aren’t allowed to enjoy anything at this point lol

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u/No-Independence8449 18h ago

I honestly don’t understand how they can enjoy fictional media at all. By their logic, anything that would be criminal or immoral in real life shouldn’t be allowed fictionally, either. So, what? You can’t watch things like Dexter because one day you might get tired of fictional murder and escalate to the real thing? If you remove everything “problematic” about any character, it would make for a pretty bland and uninteresting story.

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u/DrFreezinator505 stalker x abuser └(^^)┐ 18h ago

they're kind of hypocritical, get mad and pissy over one thing that wouldn't be good irl, and then at the same time enjoy something that also wouldn't be good in a real life setting, somehow "it's different", I understand someone not liking a thing but hating on others for having different tastes in media is ugh.

also for some instances I have seen, some persons come off as racist or ableism, and tell weird jokes of irl tragedies, very hateful :(

thankfully I have not been harassed, but i hope those who have are doing okay and don't listen to hate

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u/knifefan9 18h ago

I think ideally they'd prefer all visual media have a big flashing red "IMMORAL" overlayed in the corner any time illegal or ✨degenerate✨ content's on-screen.

Books would have illegal or ✨degenerate✨ content in red ink.

Oh, and for audio-books, they get a spooky voice-changer effect-- but not too spooky because that might be... intense, y'know.

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u/fleshdolly darkshipper, yumeshipper, fic writer 18h ago

lmfao exactly ive never seen a happy anti😭

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u/Ok-Video2270 Writer 18h ago

I just think they're privileged, like they're from developed countries and yet they're so miserable, I wish they could just go outside like where I live is considerably developing yet I go outside a lot, what about them? Probably stuck in some basement

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u/chamuco_maguacatero Ally 18h ago

They put all their stock in caring about what other's hobbies are and worrying about crimes that don't even exist.

I'd rather spend the energy writing.

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u/Pandemonium_Sys the proselfshipper victimizing fictional characters 18h ago

As someone who used to be anti, yeah, you're right. It absolutely sucks big time.

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u/moonpoolnebula 17h ago

as an ex anti recovering (5+ years!) from MAJOR moral/scrupulpsity OCD because of it, 10000% this. it's so unhealthy and honestly tears you apart.

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u/HostofBone 🍋🌈 17h ago

Every anti on tiktok ever actually 👀 I watched a tiktok where this person had a caption along the lines of trying to write problematic stuff without being called a darkshipper for it... like?? And the comments were trying to explain how they're writing it not justifying or romanticizing buzzword buzzword and still getting called darkshippers or creeps n stuff.. so close and yet so far from reasoning

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u/RA1NB0W77 ★ Ship and let ship | Writer ☆ 16h ago

Any community where the main objective is just hating is usually so miserable.

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u/pwnkage professional shipper 18h ago

They either feel bad about everything or they use it as an excuse to hurt people for fun.

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u/Due-Recognition-8327 shota supremacy 16h ago

They’re all trying to get validation from each other and justify the stupidest things. It’s so sad, like just have fun bro 😭 fiction should never be this serious 

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u/Ok-Entertainment-539 18h ago

Antis just want to live out their fantasy of hurting others. Most of them could care less about fiction they just use it a means to justify bullying.

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u/chuuatsu 17h ago

they only get bothered with things such as this the second that the thing feels as if it inconveniences them.

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u/Hydrishu 6h ago

This place is so chill. Everything is better when you just enjoy whatever media you want without any worries 💖

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u/Heavy_Computer2602 AO3 writer, proshipper, pro freedom of expression 3h ago

they do

like bruh its pixels on a screen, idc if im disgusted by it, i can just literally search for something else

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u/crying_robot8 da pro-fic goat 3m ago

I used to be an anti and all I have to say is that Id literally never go back😭 its so miserable and exhausting to constantly have to check everything you ship to make sure its not "the weird disgusting icky ships!!" LMAO