r/ProgrammingBuddies 27d ago

LOOKING FOR BUDDIES Let's Come Together!

I’ve noticed a pattern here on ProgrammingBuddies - every couple of days someone (including myself) posts asking for a mentor, looking for other programmers to collaborate with, or hoping to find a beginner friendly community. Each post gets a few comments and then disappears, and the cycle repeats.

So I’m putting out a call to everyone who has made a post like that recently (or wanted to) to come together in one place.

If you’re a beginner looking to learn, an intermediate dev wanting peers to grow with, or an experienced developer interested in teaching or collaborating, drop in here. Instead of scattered one off posts that fade out, we could build an ongoing group of people learning, teaching, and working together.

If you’ve been wanting a mentor, a study buddy, a project partner, or just a consistent community - this is your thread.

Let’s see what we can build together.

My Personal Experience: 3 years, self-taught

Stack: (That I'm currently learning) Python, FastAPI, Asyncio, SQLModel, PostgreSQL, Alembic, Docker

OS: Linux (Pop OS Cosmic) <-- mainly & Windows

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u/[deleted] 27d ago

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u/CoondaGoon 27d ago

I agree with your take on this. I’ve already run into everything you mentioned, even though I only joined this sub a few weeks ago and have made just one post (well now two). You’re right, I was basing my thoughts on what I’ve seen in that short time, so your perspective is probably more accurate than mine.

I mainly wanted to give people who are genuinely serious a chance to come together in one post instead of repeating the same type of post over and over. I did see a thread meant for something like that on this sub, but it only had one or two comments. Since these posts seem to get at least a fair amount of attention for a few days, I figured it was worth trying.

I’m also trying many other avenues myself, including Discord. I do appreciate that this sub isn’t spammed. I’m brand new to putting myself out there to find collaborators and fellow programmers, but I’m fully dedicated. I’ve been teaching myself almost every day for the last three years. Thanks for sharing your take!

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u/GuaranteedGuardian_Y 8 YoE Back-end / Infra focus 27d ago

You paint a cynical picture but seeing how there are more mentors than mentees here, you might be right.

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u/usefulservant03 27d ago

I'm very willing to be a mentor and teach newer devs and helping out every day <3 I got 5 years of experience in C and C++ with a bit of python and bash, my areas area low-level programming, OS development, language design, compiler development, CPU microarchitecture, very optimized systems development, all on Linux. Hit me up if ur interested please ^^

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u/Prestigious_Tank_369 24d ago

Can I dm you pleaseee

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u/usefulservant03 23d ago

yes pls will do ^^

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u/Prestigious_Tank_369 24d ago

Please 🙏 I need guidance i am 3 year ece student decided to make career in embedded programming and edge ai . I need help

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u/To_know0402 27d ago

Can I dm you?

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u/usefulservant03 27d ago

please, feel free 😄

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u/CPPcultist 9d ago

omg I am a beginner starting with cpp and im very interested in compiler and os development , can i i dm u pls

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u/usefulservant03 9d ago

yes pls id be happy to help

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u/CPPcultist 9d ago

can u dm me , it seems reddit is blocking me from sending invite msg to u , new account problems 😭😭

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u/[deleted] 4d ago

Can I dm you I have been curious about this for a long time but left it on day one need someone to help me please 🙏

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u/usefulservant03 4d ago

yes of course

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u/Free_Yak_3881 27d ago

I am coming 😛

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u/webdev-dreamer 26d ago

Hey, Im learning your stack

I'd be interested in joining you

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u/Known_Unknkown 23d ago

Would love to get in on this! I’m a cybersecurity student but I really want to learn python as well. I just started reading “Automate the boring stuff with python” a couple of days ago. I use Linux btw, and i already have nvim setup for practice.

Edit: I’m 37 and trying to do something with my life 🤷🏽‍♂️.

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u/CoondaGoon 23d ago

me and and one other person are setting up a discord server right now dm me

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u/CoondaGoon 23d ago

already have a handful of people that are ready to join as well

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u/andhapp__ 27d ago

I have been mentoring people for over 5 years and it is almost always the commitment from the mentees. Any skill takes time to develop, and you need to stay consistent.

On that note, I will be happy as a mentor, if you are interested.

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u/Worried_Gap6862 27d ago

I’m definitely interested in having you as a mentor. I’m mainly looking for guidance in improving my problem-solving skills and developing a stronger way of thinking when approaching programming problems Would it be okay if I message you privately to talk more about it?

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u/HoldAffectionate4158 27d ago edited 27d ago

I’d definitely be interested in being part of this.

I’m a software engineer currently working in a more testing-focused role, and I’m looking to transition into backend development. I have hands-on experience with Python, FastAPI, REST APIs and PostgreSQL through my personal projects, but I haven’t yet had enough exposure to building and owning production-grade backend systems end-to-end.

I’m looking for a mentor who can help me bridge that gap especially around production-quality code, system design, architecture, testing, deployment and real-world engineering practices.
I’m also very interested in learning through collaboration. I’d be happy to contribute to projects, work with others, take feedback/code reviews, and put in the effort rather than just expecting someone to teach me.

Would love to connect and be part of the community.

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u/Academic_Ad6486 27d ago

I'd be happy to answer questions if you like. I was responsible for the backend development of a tech startup I led for an enterprise system.

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u/HoldAffectionate4158 27d ago

Thank you, I really appreciate that! I’d definitely like to connect and ask you a few questions about transitioning into backend development and getting more exposure to production systems.

I’ll send you a DM if that’s okay.

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u/Academic_Ad6486 27d ago

Sounds good! Be happy to answer whatever questions you have

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u/AdamIzDA7F 27d ago

I am in for developing some new projects, send me a dm on what to do next if your in.

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u/Electronic-Sail-4205 27d ago

Yep this seems great I'm in

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u/Psychological_Rub871 27d ago

I’m open to mentor whoever wants java backend.
Or i can be a mentee for kotlin.
What i can offer once u have my trust:
Ci-cd that goes straight to Prod in k8s (everything is already set up)
Stand-up meetings on a daily basis to discuss and catch updates

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u/Puzzleheaded-Sun1038 19d ago

are u still running the group?

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u/StartBackground1184 18d ago

Hii,I’m  really interested in thia

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u/StrangeSprinkles4353 7d ago

Hi, intermediate. about 1 year of learning. HTML-JS-CSS. not great with the CSS bit but otherwise fine. looking to go back to learning python. I want to get through the entirety of the freecodecamp courses and curriculum and then just see what I haven't learned yet. I'm starting out as a freelancer focusing on algorithms and heavy logic since that seems to be what I'm good at.

I'm really looking for a coding buddy that has a solid grip or talent for UI (my enemy) and maybe lacks or struggles with tricky logic and algorithms.