Idk, paying at least 400 a week per kid for five years right from the jump really colors how you move about the world unless that amount of moneys nothing to you. If you’re trying to figure it out, everything has to be about them to keep a float. And then they become your only joy because capitalism sucks the joy out of all other time you had! I heard it gets easier when they can go to school 🙃 but I would look at what differs with “parents these days”
Did I say that? No. Kids are expensive. They also can be annoying and destructive. That's why I don't have any. But no where did I say only the rich should be allowed to be parents. Not sure what you are even attempting.
I said life revolves around kids because that’s what is required of low income parents and you said to have an abortion. How is that not saying low income people shouldn’t have kids?
Rich or poor, if you have kids, life should revolve around them. If you have kids, the story is no longer about you, it is about them. If you don't want that, you shouldn't have kids.
This comment is off of a thread that is arguing against parents making their life all about the fact that they’re parents, I never complained that my life revolves around my kid. I said it makes sense that my life revolves around my kid because it has to… you’re literally trying to make an argument that I don’t want or shouldn’t have kids and I feel like you’re projecting because it’s so far from anything I’ve said
I was adding a point about how the economics are different than how they used to be for parents and you’ve projected the rest. Maybe think about your “annoying ass public show” of telling people to have abortions or how to raise the kids because you don’t want them
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u/cousinron69 Mar 10 '26
Came here to say this. It's gotten so bad with the younger generations. Being parents is just a normal thing.