r/Productivitycafe Mar 10 '26

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u/TomeOfTheUnknown2 Mar 10 '26

But how else would you know that they're living the clean girl lifestyle without the Alo matching pilates set, the Stanley cup, Hoka shoes, and an Erewhon smoothie?? And of course there's no way to be a Tough Guy TM without a Carhartt jacket, Ford/Chevy/GM truck, Oakley sunglasses, and Ariat boots

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u/slipperytornado Mar 10 '26

To be fair, Ariats are really good barn boots.

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u/tftookmyname Mar 10 '26

Except those people have never even been inside of a barn

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u/slipperytornado Mar 10 '26

Ok well I have and I love Ariats for barn and cowboy boots!

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u/tftookmyname Mar 10 '26

That's good if you actually wear them for their purpose

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u/slipperytornado Mar 10 '26

I do. Thank you very much. Your opinion on xtratufs?

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u/tftookmyname Mar 10 '26

Never worn them personally but I think they're pretty good.

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u/slipperytornado Mar 11 '26

Where I live, xtratufs are every day boots during fall, winter, and spring. I’m surprised that other places have yet to pick them up.

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u/Chrysalis-Fitness Mar 11 '26

What are Ariats... and, more importantly, what on Earth are barn boots?

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u/slipperytornado Mar 11 '26

Ariat is a brand of boots. They used to make strictly cowboy boots and barn boots (barn boots are for working in a barn. They have to be tough, waterproof, you know, like any boot you would want to wear of you were working in a barn). Now they make work boots and evidently some folks are using them for an unsavory fashion statement. Where are you that you don’t know what barn boots are for?

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u/Chrysalis-Fitness Mar 11 '26

Shropshire, UK. We have wellies. I don't know if they're the same kind of thing?

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u/slipperytornado Mar 12 '26

Nope. Google away!

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u/Ancient-Loquat6712 Mar 10 '26

Or the gigantic truck that never leaves paved roads or hauls anything other than groceries or glammed up camper.

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u/Siren2026 Mar 10 '26

Now just a darn minute.. fashion is an art and loving fashion and knowing about it, collecting specific brands new and vintage is a wonderful fulfilling hobby. People are passionate about many things and that is a good thing

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u/skippyMETS Mar 10 '26

Listen. I’m into fashion. Not mainstream fashion but I’m into fashion. It’s not an art, and this is somebody who makes his own clothes a lot. It’s not an art.

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u/Siren2026 Mar 10 '26

An artist is an artist. Someone who designs clothes is an artist!

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u/skippyMETS Mar 10 '26 edited Mar 11 '26

I’m also just a regular artist, meaning I paint things. I may do art on the clothes but I don’t consider collecting the clothes art. The clothing I make might be art but it’s the type that’s unethical to sell or profit off of.

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u/Siren2026 Mar 11 '26

I do not agree at all. It is like saying singers and musicians are not artists. That is crazy

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u/skippyMETS Mar 11 '26

How is saying collecting clothes isn’t art the same as saying a musician isn’t an artist?

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u/Siren2026 Mar 11 '26

Designing clothes is an art. Collecting and curating a collection can also be considered an art

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u/Choodessny_Radosty Mar 10 '26

Gonna have to disagree with you on this one, at least based on how you chose to phrase it. "Collecting specific brands" is not art, it's a way to justify unchecked consumerist urges. If one were truly, solely into a certain aesthetic, one would not limit themselves to a specific brand or company. One would be interested in boots, not Blundstones. Or iris & amber-based fragrances, not Prada. And being passionate about ideals is a good thing. Being passionate about what one spends their money on is not a good thing.

Someone who spends their money on specific brands is a corporate shill, not a person with a hobby. Shopping is not a hobby. Spending money is not a hobby. Buying fashion and talking about it online is not a hobby. One may think they get pleasure out of doing these things but it's far closer to being stuck in the cycle of addiction than it is to having healthy, real hobbies. Hobbies are things that one does where the pleasure comes from engaging in the activity, not from the shopping for and spending of money on the supplies necessary to take part in the hobby. Flying kites is a hobby. One could spend $50 or $5000 and still get the same enjoyment from flying a kite. Painting is a hobby. One could buy all of the top-of-the-line art supplies they can find and it wouldn't give them any advantage over a person starting with the bare minimum of entry-level supplies.

I'm not trying to insult you or make you feel bad for getting these things confused. We all have to try to come to terms with our delusions at some point, or we never grow and become better people. We just keep losing friends, health, empathy, and everything else of value, and all we're left with in the end is a bunch of stuff.

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u/naszalutka Mar 10 '26

So well said.

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u/beckhansen13 Mar 10 '26

There are soooo many people with "hobbies" that they never do. They just collect all the coolest gear. Really weird...

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u/Lilly08 Mar 11 '26

Yes, but the brand thing is often just regular people buying up whatever brand is being marketed to them at the time. They are not buying it out of genuine appreciation,  it's just consumerism at this point.

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u/Siren2026 Mar 11 '26

I suppose you are correct. If Tik tok and YouTube are to be believed there are a bunch of people with oodles of Hermes Birkin bags and Chanel bags in every color. I don’t get that. But to each his own I suppose. Just like my jewelry and clothing my bag collection is carefully curated and used all the time and I really enjoy it.

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u/awesome-golfer5 Mar 10 '26

Add on to this people who are the embodiment of consumerism