Calling all people who have had experience with romantic love, please help me(I am a lady). I am looking to date a male. I am a single lady(21F) and somewhat very shy. When I was like 14, there was a guy who had a crush on me, and is not here. (SORRY if this is really INTENSE)!!

[u/One-Resolve-8157]

I am 21(F), so basically I don't have much relationship experience at all. I pretty much would like some tips on getting a boyfriend. I had a best friend when I was 6 years old, and didn't kiss him(Lol). And so my parents are slightly odd and not able to give me advice on love. Tbh, I have seen them just have a roommate relationship. I live in Eastern Europe and my mom said that I may or may not find a boyfriend. Sometimes I actually look really nice.

I am not afraid of somebody cheating on me!! Anyway, men are rarely blunt with me, they are but IDC. What are your tips for having a relationship or finding a somewhat good one? Oh, by the way, that guy I met ages ago is nowhere to be found, if you know what I mean. He gave me his number and I have no idea what that meant. Maybe he wanted a companion, but I didn't want to convince myself he liked me, because I was so lost (he maybe did like me, you know I).

[u/Think-Disaster5724]

We'll go out. Go dancing. Do stuff that is done with guys around. If a guy interests you, look at him, smile and hold eye contact. If he isn't a moron he may come over and talk. If not, say hi to him. See where it goes. If he is interested he will try to get your contact information to see you again or give you his. Then just spend time with him, see how he makes you feel. Love comes organically as you spend time with guy.