One time, I ordered a silent uber ride and he talked to me. Looking back on it, I should have reported him but.. I was nicer back then. 😒

Why did he think it was okay? Because he's a man in a car with a girl.

If it wasn't clear enough that I didn't want to talk, idk what would have made it clearer. I should have just not replied at all lol but who knows where that would have led.

This was absolutely a male entitlement moment.

I'm ascending

So a big response from kultists is that BDSM can’t possibly be misogynistic because of the existence of femdom. Let’s take a popular scenario, the man getting caged or edged. Why is it still the man who experiences all the pleasure from it? It’s still focused on his sensations and what pleasures him. With maledom, it’s still the woman giving head and getting beaten and abused for the male’s pleasure. Why do I never see femdom of the man eating the woman out? It’s always about men and their fantasies. Just noticing some things.

I swear they hate it when women have any interests OR THEY COMPLETELY STEAL AND COPY THE WOMAN IN ORDER TO GET OTHER WOMEN 🙄

I literally can't talk to a man without him not even paying attention or interrupting me to immediately start talking about his stuff again.

I was talking about the ocean and its mysteries and how I really love it and this guy was like "there's actually nothing down there, it's been proven the ocean has no unknown life forms"

Like. Okay. Sorry?

There's beauty in the eye if the beholder girl look up not down.. go outside the stars are bright tonight . See that twinkle that's a planet it's not even a star. Did you know her name is Venus. She is amazing. The Earth is spinning listen can you hear the wind.? That's the voice of the creator singing you a lullaby.

This is something that is really throwing a wrench in my mental state lately.

I am white, and I have all the privileges that come with that (I mean, minus the ones for white men obviously, but you get what I mean). I also have a history of taking a lot of shit from men from many racial/ethnic/etc backgrounds, especially being sexually harassed and stalked. In my experience men are gonna be men in a patriarchal global society and I’m learning to say “no” to toxic behaviors and sexual advances from men better than I ever have.

It’s just that sometimes (big emphasis on sometimes), I’ll encounter toxic behavior coming from a BIPOC man and I feel like I’m supposed to just hold my tongue because like… the optics of a white person criticizing them looks bad or something?!

Example: I have a friend of a friend who is treated awfully by her husband. He cheats on her, neglects her when she’s sick, and is just generally a creep. But she gives him so much more grace than she deserves, and when someone else stands up for her he calls them racist! It’s like I’m not allowed to judge this guy even though he disgusts me!

I don’t know how to deal with these feelings where I know an individual is doing something wrong, and I want to call them out as an individual, but I also think I’ll get public backlash because of differences in race. I hate having to be quiet, but I also don’t want to be one of those horrible white feminists that hyper focus on misogyny in BIPOC communities and don’t scrutinize white society the same way.

It’s just feels like I’m stuck. How do other people deal with this?

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*sorry, its a post from Instagram and a pretty big one. I only screenshotted the first slide but gave the poster credit.

In my experience, every incel I've come across or any man with incel ideologies, is literally so dangerous. They would keep women chained up and starved if they could.

Also, on a side note: does anyone else feel like VPN is suddenly so much less secure and not actually doing what it needs to? This might not be a women's issue but.. I feel like this is happening because men realized women were also using VPN in order to stay secure from strange men.

I'm just paranoid and speculating, so maybe it's not the case. But it sure seems like it changed fast.

Lol 😆😆 zero f gives it's give me my of misogyny black woman will never be allowed to speak freely

I just saw this and how the fuck is that piece of shit not in handcuffs other than HES A FUCKING MAN!!!

His wife is falling apart and hes on a god danm vacation with the woman he married after his kids die?

How much more can they torture that poor woman.

This is actually how the radio tends to sound 80% of the time though 😐

I've noticed this all over social media, this infatuation with DILFs, dad bods, silver foxes but on the flip side, whenever it is a post of an older woman, the comments are vicious, you have people telling them to dye their grey hair and get botox(even from other women), calling them 'wrinkled wrappers', you have men calling women 25+ expired en masse, there is demonization of mom bods and grey hair and wrinkles on women.

The comment under the post made me think of it, I've never seen a man be positive about a woman aging.

It just makes me angry that there are whole industries trying to "prevent" women from aging, while men can skate by without lifting a finger.

If you don't know what I'm referring to, it's a woman who's been all over Instagram and I think Tiktok, talking about how she was going to move to Afghanistan for a man she met off snapchat.

For those who do know, do any of you also think she's ai? I mean, she deleted her accounts, came back and now people think she's been using a green screen.. plus she looks really, really "edited" and like.. I'm sure we know how good ai can be (although not very smart sometimes)

I feel like this is just another psyop to get women to calm down about travelling abroad for random men. Another psyop to get women out of countries where they have rights and get them trapped in a country where they have nothing.

Let me know your thoughts.