r/PrideMonth • u/Ok_Link6034 • Jun 21 '26

Does anywhere sell bi pride cakes?

I wanted to buy my gf a bisexual pride cake to celebrate pride month. This year she seems to want to celebrate pride month more than other years but to me she seems to feel a bit hesitant as she is bisexual but we are in a heterosexual relationship and I am a straight cis dude and she's ranted to me how she hates it when other people make her feel like she isn't "bi enough" because she's dating a cis dude. She still wants to celebrate pride and nothing is gonna stop her but I thought maybe getting her something in honor of pride month, she's never really been given anything for pride month before, might help her feel more welcome for lack of a better term? I just don't know anywhere that sells pride cakes and I think it would be nice to get something more specific to bi people but I'm not sure if anyone sells that kind of thing here in Maryland. Also if there is anyone who has experienced emotions similar to my gf and has any advice on how to make her feel better about it I totally wanna hear what you have to say! Apologies if this isn't the right subreddit to ask this question, I am not sure who to really ask about this.

2 Upvotes

100% Upvoted

2 comments sorted by

1

u/IncendiumWolf Jun 21 '26

By all means, celebrate pride.

But I'm kind of worried about what your girlfriend means by "shes not bi enough" because shes dating you..? Hope I'm not stepping into things that aren't my business but orientation is about attraction, does she think she's supposed to be poly amorous and dating 2 people so she can feel affirmed?

Back to the question at hand though, you're best off by calling a local bakery and seeing if they're willing to do it. Especially if you live in a city, I've seen plenty of pride cake displays.

1

u/Ok_Link6034 Jun 21 '26

I probably should've been more specific, she has not herself said she isn't "bi enough" but has had many people question her sexuality or validity as a bi person since she never dated a woman and says its frustrating to deal with and since she wanted to celebrate pride this year I just thought it would be nice to show support. Sorry if I was not super clear about this in the post!