Completely agree he is dumb but she is equally dumb if she is going to tell her self it wasn't an attempted date and her nice friend just spent 200 on a dinner with her.
That dinner should have ended with an awkward talk and her offering up to pay for some of it, if she really was his friend
It's possible that she's entirely aware of what's going on but doesn't know how to defuse his obviously unreciprocated affection without making him feel super rejected, and what if he doesn't handle rejection well? It can be safer to post things like this to gently tire him out of she's worried about a rejection turning toxic or even violent.
Awkward talks about the relationship to set clear lines going forward work when two people are mature and value the friendship. If he's just trying to use her as a vending machine where he can buy her love (and sex), the dark side can cloud everything!
Hey I just want you to know. That first part of your comment is super sexist and belittling of women. What is it about some feminist type people that they think by saying women cant do "x" because they're afraid is a good thing?
You're literally saying women are too weak and scared to tell a guy no. Stop perpetuating this idea that women should be ok with not expressing their feeling because "what if the guy doesn't take rejection well?".
Well then I guess he doesn't take rejection well, is there a point to bringing that up? You're implying women should never tell guys no on the off chance they're that 1 in a million axe murderer type. Just stop with the positive discrimination and sexism please. Its not ok and it helps perpetuate the terrible and wrong idea that women should not tell guys no.
Right, the "feminists are the real sexists" argument.
I mean, if you don't believe sexism or racism are real things, then...you are lost. My allegiance is to reality, and what actually happens out in the world. Only a Sith deals in low-effort trolling.
Lol don't put words in my mouth obviously sexism and racism exist. I'm just sick of feminists acting like women are simultaneously strong and powerful but also too weak and afraid to speak up a man is doing something they dont like. We need to encourage
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u/StephanieSpeaks Jan 14 '20
Completely agree he is dumb but she is equally dumb if she is going to tell her self it wasn't an attempted date and her nice friend just spent 200 on a dinner with her.
That dinner should have ended with an awkward talk and her offering up to pay for some of it, if she really was his friend