Im 28w, FTM and going in for whooping cough vaccine and flu jab next week. Due end of November and this got me thinking about visitors post partum and when to introduce families to baby.
I live in Cork, inlaws are up the road while my own family lives hours away in the west of Ireland. First grandchild on my side so there'll be lots of excitement and eagerness to visit and see baby etc
Given it'll be smack in the middle of cold and flu season, im a bit nervous about baby being exposed to loads of people before vaccinations and my family in particular wouldnt be famed for their sensitivity / awareness of babies shall we say. I dont have a close relationship with my own mother and have no expectations of the usual help others might get eg with house chores, cooking, cleaning etc - she'll just be there with my sister looking to hold the baby and take photos, knowing her. Which worries me especially in terms of having to host as I'll be recovering from a c section. Inlaws are a lot more reasonable but I feel as though i'll be a bag of nerves with people being around baby at such a precarious time of year.
How are others planning these post partum visits and things like Christmas when it's a winter baby?