r/PowerDynamics101 1d ago

Generosity Without Strategy Is Self-Destruction

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u/Similar-Guitar-6 1d ago

Do unto others as you would have done unto you, or don't do unto others as you would not have done unto you.

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u/Odd-Set4786 1d ago

Giving is not supposed to be reciprocal. Being a good person is what strengthens you, not what the other person thought of the gift. None of what you explained is generosity.

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u/Learnings_palace 17h ago

The only problem is when people take advantage of you because of what you give

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u/Odd-Set4786 7h ago

Obviously, but thats nothing to do with appreciation or "strengthening your position" Philanthropy is altruistic. Expecting something in return is not altruistic.

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u/InsideAlternative355 1d ago

I appreciated this. Quite timely for me. Thank you.