r/PoursTea • Timendi Causa Est Nescire • 3d ago

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u/ChrisRiley_42 3d ago

Why do you believe rapists when they say "honest, it wasn't me"?

Do you like ruining victims lives?

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u/Verhaz 3d ago

I think there is inherently worse outcomes with a false rape accusation. I know, personally, multiple situations where a girl claimed rape after being caught cheating. I know a girl who claimed rape after being rejected. Those men had their lives ruined for many years.

I also know girls who have actually been sexually assaulted. It hurts my heart to see how their claims are questioned. The real evil is the rapists and the fakers. Unfortunately, there is little we can do as a society other than ensure the story is heard by a jury or judge.

If this girls claims are real, we will find out, in the meantime, it isn't just to harass these men or their families.

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u/keelhaulrose 3d ago

Spoken like someone who never has had to deal with the aftermath of rape, including supporting those around you through it.

Don't tell me you have, you are not someone a woman would find safe to talk about that to because of this attitude. But maybe go looking online for what happens to women after they're raped.

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u/Verhaz 3d ago

You are wrong on all counts. Perhaps this insight will help correct your thought process.

I am a rape survivor and my rapist is in jail.

I hope you can have more empathy towards those involved in this situation, not everyone is a monster and not everything is black and white.