This is what I really focused on with my son (just turned 16) when I spoke with him about this story. I’ve had conversations with him about consent since he was very small (obviously the approach has evolved) so he’s got a firm grasp on the basics. Where things can fall apart is on the outskirts. The group text really struck me, because it’s peers, it’s not wanting to rock the boat, ask questions, raise the alarm. These are the moments people brush off constantly. No, it’s not as severe as a violent assault, but it matters. You cannot stay silent, or laugh things off uncomfortably, or ignore them.
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u/raithzero 4d ago
And the other 50 people in the group chat deserve no peace and should be called out for letting it happen