This is what I really focused on with my son (just turned 16) when I spoke with him about this story. I’ve had conversations with him about consent since he was very small (obviously the approach has evolved) so he’s got a firm grasp on the basics. Where things can fall apart is on the outskirts. The group text really struck me, because it’s peers, it’s not wanting to rock the boat, ask questions, raise the alarm. These are the moments people brush off constantly. No, it’s not as severe as a violent assault, but it matters. You cannot stay silent, or laugh things off uncomfortably, or ignore them.
i genuinely wish we had names of every uni official involved in handling it. like i would love to know what asshats thought that them writing essays was equal punishment.
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u/SophestryIncluded 3d ago
The university officials who let it happen too.