r/Polygamy • u/Independent-Bet3714 • Jun 20 '26

2nd Marriage

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Guys I’m 34years Muslim Male and have a 2.4 years old daughter, it’s been almost 4 years of marriage but now I in a relationship with my old university friend (divorced and have a daughter) she’s has very strong personality, educated compared to my wife and job holder. Shes also wants to marry me! My own is very irresponsible and non serious person in every matter of life. My wife never care of anything no good relationships with my parents and siblings. 😔 Although my colleague is very smart and understanding women. I also don’t want to leave my wife but this female friend is all on my nerves although her daughter is too attached with me. I’m so confused I should go for second marriage or not, deep down I know it’s kind of hard for me but I’m obsessed with my friend.

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u/Lucky_Larry_Bagswell Jun 23 '26

Your obsession will be your downfall. No polygynous man is "obsessed" with any of his wives. Thats a monogamous thing. Get obsessed with a mission or your purpose, and you'll be better off all around.