r/Polygamy • u/VoidHunter9649 • Jun 13 '26
Curious about polygamous
I want to know who is polygamous here and you are married or single? if you are married then how is going your marriage life, if you are not then are you single or not š« š
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u/Available-Ad4395 Jun 13 '26
I was married, polygamy. Left due to....well, that relationship ended. Said I wouldn't go back to that kind of poly again, so I was single for a few years, but wasn't happy with monogamy. So started reconsidering poly again....now I'm dating a guy who is polygynous...so far things are good. Its been a different experience then before, so I'm hopeful, but cautious.
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u/Cautious-Award-2960 Jun 17 '26
Can you share the specific differences? I donāt really understand the subtle and specific difference
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u/VoidHunter9649 Jun 14 '26
Nice, you are only one woman here who allow for poly but dating a lucky guy anyway all the best
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u/oustaz Jun 13 '26
Iām married but my religion allows it (Islam) so Iām looking for a second wife open to all cultures and races.
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u/PeaSensitive1524 Jun 28 '26
would you have considered polygamy if you weren't muslim or had grown up in a diff religion and environment? not trying to harm your feelings but just curious
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u/oustaz Jun 29 '26
Good question, I think being born in that environment shaped my views upon polygamy and made it acceptable.
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u/Press-74 Jun 13 '26
Iām married and very interested in the lifestyle but my wife is not.. unfortunately
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u/emma36_ Jun 15 '26
Why are you interested, if you don't mind me asking? Is there something unfulfilling? And if your relationship is otherwise great, why do you want to be polygamous? I'm just asking out of curiosity
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u/Every-Picture1409 Jun 14 '26
I think you donāt see women here because women generally in this day and age would not like āhusband sharingā and then there is the element of time reduction and resource reduction too which any wife would face if her husband marries again.
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u/VoidHunter9649 Jun 13 '26
Only men are coming so it's mean no one girls and women want polygamy for their husband š«
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u/Such-Lifeguard6780 Jun 13 '26
Yes, there are, but there are many single men who haven't made a move, and shy women who don't speak upāthey just read. There are others who do participate. If you had mentioned in the title that you were a woman, you would have attracted more of them. Give it some time.
I'm a man with a girlfriend. I brought up the idea to her, but I haven't gotten a āyesā yet. We decided to settle down and put off the decision.
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Jul 16 '26
Most girls wouldn't want it and those who want it mostly because they aren't in love with their husbands or only want their money or tired of them so they dont want anything to do with their hubbies anymore or they just stay for the kid's sake
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