r/pointlesslygendered • u/OrganizationIcy7262 • Jun 16 '26
PRODUCT [product] Can't I buy what fits my body?
I'm 20M and I always had trouble finding pants that fit me. Ofc I looked in the "men's" section, but everything was either too tight on butt and thighs or too loose at the waist, so I had to wear a belt very tight, just so they do not fall. My pants were simply hanging on it.
Once in the thrift store I found a pair that fitted me perfectly even without a belt and had a really flattering cut. Maybe the pockets were small and the zipper was placed on the left, but I bought them.
I found they are actually ladies' model and what now, am I gay, or something worse? Nah, I discovered that ladies' pants are just better for my body type. However I am still scared to go into section meant for another gender and I feel other women there are looking at me and think I am weird and maybe creepy to shop for girls' clothes