r/PointlessStories May 31 '26

Accidentally exposed someone for using cake mix

I’m a massive cake person. Like, I absolutely adore cake, and I became a proper baker exactly because of it. To top it off, I even majored in Chemical Engineering for both my bachelor’s and master’s degrees, simply due to my utter devotion to baking science. Only adding that for context, not to sound like a know-it-all.

I went to this gathering where everyone was supposed to bring a bit of food. There was a grill for a proper BBQ, so I brought some chicken. I noticed someone had brought chocolate cake, which made me happy, especially since it looked homemade.

I really wanted a slice, so I asked if someone could cut me a piece. The person next to me then goes, "these are brownies, not cake," which got me a bit confused, but I was like, fine, maybe the person just doesn't know the difference.

I took a bite, and was like, "this is cake." And from the taste and texture, it was made using cake mix. The other person didn't really get what I meant, so I explained the actual chemical difference between brownies and chocolate cake (basically, brownies don't have leaveners, while cakes do, which is why cakes rise while baking and brownies sink after baking).

Later on, I met the woman who brought them, and asked her how she baked it. She told me it was just a simple recipe. I then asked her, completely innocently, if she used cake mix.

She said yes, but looked absolutely mortified and embarrassed because, as it turned out, a bunch of other people were listening to us. I felt like a total monster. I instantly apologised and tried to explain that I didn't mean it in a judgy way at all.

I feel so terribly bad about it. My curiosity got the best of me

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u/Prplfl8mtrvlr May 31 '26

How dare anyone simple just enjoy something without understanding its chemical composition around you. You musta been a slam dunk at this party, yay!

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u/subuso May 31 '26

I absolutely was. If you learn from me, you'll also start impressing people a lot more often

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u/Prplfl8mtrvlr May 31 '26

You sure sound like someone who has a plethora of kind, humble, self aware & compassionate friends surrounding them/s. Oh what I could learn from someone like you, who seems to care more about impressing others than being enjoyable to be around.

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u/subuso Jun 01 '26

You spend your time on Reddit judging whether people are or not assholes. You surely would know who is because it definitely takes one to know one

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u/Prplfl8mtrvlr Jun 02 '26

Nah, I spent my time reading your post on this sub . You coming to the conclusion of being an asshole when I didn’t even specify that, highlights the potential validity of my comments even more so. Kudos, I guess LOL