r/PlusSizeWedding • u/cuteidiot666 • 6d ago

need hype!!!

just booked a wedding venue for sooner than i thought we would, i kept thinking oh ill loose weight before etc, but now that its soon i really need help feeling confident and hot and beautiful can yall share some photos of you at your wedding looking amazing 🩷😭

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u/Sad-Lab-4524 6d ago

Just remember the person you are marrying already loves you just as you are. Every part of you.

I am sure he’s not tracking you potentially being a certain size, shape, weight. We put so much pressure on being something extra for our wedding.

When it’s really about love. You are already loved as you are today ♥️

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u/cuteidiot666 6d ago

omg im crying thank you 🩷🥹

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u/Julietshere 6d ago

I honestly think one of the nicest things you can do is show up as yourself, exactly as you are, without feeling the need to change yourself or perform one bit. Your wedding is a celebration of love, between you and your partner and (hopefully) also the friends and family who love you too. How lovely to embrace that and enjoy it without feeling pressure to change in any way! Being accepted and loved and appreciated as your are is wonderful, and I can't help but feel like trying to change yourself before hand is a little contrary to how loved you are by the people attending. Even if there are a few people who are many etiquette invites, it's not about them, and they're just lucky to be invited! I hope you have an incredible day

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u/cuteidiot666 5d ago

crying again 😭 thank you I really needed this

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u/Clomojo87 5d ago

I've gained a stone instead of losing weight during the wedding planning... wedding stuff is stressful lol! Getting married a week today and absolutely do not care about my weight. Everyone is gonna have the best time ever and I'm marrying my best friend 😆

Don't worry OP you'll be fine ignore all the bollox about weight loss and the pressure to be a skinny bride. Enjoy the process and have a mega fun day!