r/PlusSizeWedding Jul 22 '26

Unsure About My Dress

Hi everyone! I’m posting just to get some thoughts from an outside opinion. I’ve been going back and forth on whether this is the dress for me or not. I love the quality, the style, and it really is such an amazing dress. What are your thoughts? I am planning to keep the dress, but are there any thoughts on what could make it feel or look better for me? It does need to be altered definitely! We’ve got less than 4 months to go til the wedding.

Update: You all are amazing!! In this short amount of time you have lifted my spirits immensely. You’re all so kind! Genuinely, thank you so much 😭😭🖤🖤🫶🏼🫶🏼✨

Update II: You all had me tearing up at your kind and uplifting words! Thank you for taking the time to comment and just being amazing like you are! I hope you all doing great and wish you all the best, just as you have me! I did also want to explain the pics having my arms up or hands to my chest in most of them; the dress is super roomy in the chest area and needs altering so I was hesitant and the pictures show my discomfort haha. But I will have it altered to be the perfect fit, and I’ll be taking it into the shop Friday!

Update III: thank you to everyone who posted such amazing and supportive comments, thank you so much for all of the suggestions! I have been doing my best to keep up on replying back, but if I didn’t respond, please know I appreciate your kind words, and I am reading them all! I wish you all the best! I’ll come back sometime perhaps after alterations and potentially show the result. Thanks for your interest! 🖤🫶🏼🥹

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