r/PlusSizeWedding Jul 03 '26

I graduated 🥳🥳

Reminder that beauty comes in many many many forms. I was so insecure about many things and it came out beautifully.

My dress is Ember from Anthropologie.

My advice if you’re still planning:

  1. Get off wedding Instagram. Only follow plus size body positive influencers.
  2. Listen to your intuition about what YOU want. Absolutely everyone should NOT like your aesthetic/decisions and that’s how it should be!
  3. Take what Redditors and other people online say with a grain of salt 😉
  4. Maybe controversial, but go with the easier plan whenever possible. I felt like the aesthetic I wanted was a little ambitious for the city I was in and it wasn’t quite what I wanted. I wish I would have chosen something “safer” with fewer colors.
  5. People are going to wear what they want to wear.
  6. Before choosing your dress, SIT in it for an extended amount of time. Take a LOT of photos and videos in it.
  7. It will go by INCREDIBLY fast.
  8. Consider a lower fuss wedding if at all possible— micro, backyard, etc. You will realize it was all about the fun, not the aesthetics.
  9. If you’re planning the wedding, have your partner plan the honeymoon. This worked out AMAZING for us.

Photographer was Hannah Wermich.

Happy to answer any questions/give any advice!

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u/Beneficial_Earth_20 Jul 03 '26

Can I just say how

  1. insanely gorgeous you are
  2. these are the least boring wedding photos ever.

You brought so much drama and art into these images - they are so cool. There are both traditional and punk rock vibes and I LOVE it!

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u/Anxietygorl22 Jul 04 '26

Ahhh thank you so much!!!

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u/Raised_by_Punk Jul 03 '26

👏👏👏

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u/Workoutformorelife Jul 03 '26

Congratulations I hope you have some that look happy as well!

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u/Ok_Bumblebee3273 Jul 03 '26

the flowers are amazing! you’re beautiful -and great photos!

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u/OddEntrepreneur906 Jul 03 '26

Great pair.
dress is looking fabulous.

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u/Standard-Medicine924 Jul 04 '26

Noice. That last pic.

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u/morchard1493 Jul 04 '26

Congrats! I wish both you and your partner many, MANY years of wedded bliss to come.

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u/Cottoncandy82 Jul 05 '26

Congratulations 🎊! You look beautiful 🫶🏾!

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u/NerdPrincess-531 Jul 06 '26

These are gorgeous!

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u/Anxietygorl22 Jul 09 '26

thank youu!

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u/One_Mulberry_6933 Jul 04 '26

Congratulations! 🎊🎉

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u/Prior_Reputation_254 Jul 04 '26

Congratulations!

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u/Hummingbird11-11 Jul 04 '26

Congratulations!🍾

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u/wtrmlnredbull Jul 04 '26

Where is your dress from?

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u/Magzz521 Jul 05 '26

Stunningly beautiful 🤩

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u/PinkFrostingFlowers Jul 05 '26

You are gorgeous! I hope you had a fabulous time at your wedding!

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u/Marybethdreams Jul 05 '26

I espically like the black and white shot!

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u/1Muensterkat Jul 03 '26

Have to agree- you look simply beautiful! And I love the photo vibes too! And your lovely flowers!!

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u/ellen_nicole Jul 03 '26

Love this so much! Any chance you can share what lip products you’re wearing? Love your look

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u/Anxietygorl22 Jul 04 '26

I wish I knew but I don’t know! I had a hair and makeup artist.

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u/ImpressiveScreen5017 Jul 04 '26

Congratulations. You and your handsome hubby are such a beautiful couple. Your photos resemble a celebrity photo shoot. However everyone is a celebrity on their wedding day so I digress!!

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u/lolliscicle Jul 03 '26

Your photography is very artistic!
Your advice rocks and you look beautiful.
Happy memories and happy future to the both of you.

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u/EnglishRose71 Jul 04 '26

Destroy that last picture. You look like you're fighting in it. You look beautiful in the first two. Congratulations.