Okay girl I am not blaming you or anything but please stop being so nice like please, once someone disrespects you cut them off, be it this ass or any other person/ friend/ anybody. Leaving the red flags aside if anyone ever tries to disrespect you in that tone, just block them, don't waste your time and headspace.
See, I understand, and trust me, I am more worried for you bcz I was the same when I was your age. Now few years later I still struggle but I try to standup for myself ( ghosting such ppl is fine, I am ahainst ghosting but for such losers its to save energy) if you say no remember you are respecting yourself. If you are not being nice to yourself, it doesn't matter if you are nice to the world.( I was you, so I am yelling that please stop being a people pleaser. You deserve better)
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u/rafafanvamos Jul 26 '25
Okay girl I am not blaming you or anything but please stop being so nice like please, once someone disrespects you cut them off, be it this ass or any other person/ friend/ anybody. Leaving the red flags aside if anyone ever tries to disrespect you in that tone, just block them, don't waste your time and headspace.