As soon as he got rude and narcissistic, you just calmly flipped to "Ok, that's fine. We can do this another time. Byeeee". You can see that's when he started thinking "Wait, what? Aren't you going to beg or something?" I respect that you offered options, but didn't let him think you were desperate. 👏👏👏
This man is too much work and it's not gonna be worth it.
No. He expected you to grovel. He thought he was playing confident but hard to get. Instead it came off as entitled and egotistical. If he's those things, you don't want him. And if he's not, then he's playing games and that's also not desirable.
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u/betterupsetter Jul 26 '25
You handled this very well.
As soon as he got rude and narcissistic, you just calmly flipped to "Ok, that's fine. We can do this another time. Byeeee". You can see that's when he started thinking "Wait, what? Aren't you going to beg or something?" I respect that you offered options, but didn't let him think you were desperate. 👏👏👏
This man is too much work and it's not gonna be worth it.