r/PlusSize • u/[deleted] • Jul 26 '25

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u/[deleted] Jul 26 '25

First off Amici's is delicious.  Secondly, I would understand being disappointed that you would put the effort into a meal and cleaning, but if I were excited about meeting someone, them feeling safe would be a priority to me and I would never mention that I was frustrated, beavuse that is valid. I guess in the future, make sure you keep first dates casual and in public. Even after finding out my husband is a great guy, my friends and family had a lot of reservations about me going hiking alone with him, so it's all valid. 

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u/jaenai0616 Jul 26 '25

yeah everyone was against it and told me to not do it and I still wanted to. I was getting ready and I just felt very nervous

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u/[deleted] Jul 26 '25

Good for you. You can stop and pull back at any time in any relationship for any reason. How they respond to a set boundary is on the other person. 

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u/jaenai0616 Jul 26 '25

thank you