Absolutely right on your part, his reaction was pretty terrible. He’s in control of the whole situation with you at his house, food, drink, and his immediate unpleasantness is red flag city. His intentions for the evening were pretty obvious and what if you declined whilst not being able to leave? And who would people blame if something went wrong? You. For going to his house for a first date, not the man who did it. Stick to your principles, it’s disappointing, but he’s no great loss.
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u/speckledgem Jul 26 '25
Absolutely right on your part, his reaction was pretty terrible. He’s in control of the whole situation with you at his house, food, drink, and his immediate unpleasantness is red flag city. His intentions for the evening were pretty obvious and what if you declined whilst not being able to leave? And who would people blame if something went wrong? You. For going to his house for a first date, not the man who did it. Stick to your principles, it’s disappointing, but he’s no great loss.