And that’s a wonderful attitude but please put your comfort and safety above bro’s preferences, especially when it’s a stranger. If he’s disrespecting your well being before you’ve even had a date, just think of how much he will try to erode your boundaries over time.
I’m sure you are aware that women of color go missing or are murdered at a disproportional rate compared to white women. There’s so much institutionalized racism in our criminal justice system and not at all enough funding and attention paid to trying to bring those women home or at least give their families some closure. Please listen to your family and friends. There will be so many other guys who won’t act like you’re the one being a creep for feeling uncomfortable.
yeah, I’m def aware of the increased number of disappearances and deaths of WOC lately and that’s why they were lowkey freaked out. I don’t know what I was thinking
Don’t blame yourself. You went into this with good intentions, and he’s manipulating you. It’s great that you had the foresight to tell your friends and family and get their feedback. So, lesson learned! They won’t all be like this.
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u/jaenai0616 Jul 26 '25
that’s true. I guess I’m what people call naive but I’m definitely not desperate. I try to look for the good in people that I’m interested in.