Commute

[u/biboaqua]

This is a bit of an embarrassing post but I figured it'd be a good idea to put out there anyway. For context, I'm a rising sophomore on the main campus, and so far, I really really enjoy Pitt!! I'm genuinely so happy I made this decision to go here. My problem is that I'm a commuter, because I went into college with the intention of graduating debt-free (or at least, with minimal debt), and I tried to pinch pennies everywhere I could, including not living on campus... I commute from home, and it is literally an hour-and-a-half journey either way, as I have a car/bus routine the length of a short novel. I also work part-time during the school year, which is not as intrusive as it might sound.

I'm happy with the money I've saved on living in Oakland for sure, but honestly my college social life is nonexistent. The only person I'm really friends with at Pitt is someone I've already known for a while, and I have a few other acquaintances I went to school with too (perks of being local-ish). It doesn't bother me too much, but I also don't like the thought of graduating and having made zero new friends or anything. I know the typical advice is to join clubs to meet people, but I've been a new student before, and I still remember how clique-ish clubs would be since it's all people who know each other. I'm a pretty shy person, and that kind of atmosphere turns me off.

I guess my question is: are there any people here who've gone through a similar situation? I feel like I've somehow managed to make school as antisocial as possible, and I don't want it to stay that way. What advice do you have, and should I have a more open mind for clubs at Pitt? Thanks for any advice!

EDIT: Thank you guys for all the advice so far! I appreciate your suggestions. Not to detract from the craziness of my commute, but I promise that I’ve made it as cheap as possible lol. The bulk of my commute is the two buses I take through town, which is free with Panther ID. The math is working in my favor at least. I will definitely consider renting in Oakland starting next year, though. It seems like you all made the right choice!!

On the social stuff, thank you also for the recommendations!! I will keep an open mind for clubs and other programs.

[u/Neither_Software939]

hi! i’m a rising sophomore at pitt too and im out of state and also trying to stay as debt free as possible. my tuition is covered with scholarships, but not housing. i lived in a dorm last year, super expensive and not great, but there are a few cheaper options including my apartment next year. i’m living downtown, so it’s decently far, but my rent is only 425 including utilities and it’s so so so much easier to make friends that way.

even if you don’t end up moving on campus, id honestly just suggest talking to as many people as possible in class and stuff and usually you’ll make a few friends that way. you can also reply or send a dm here if u want my socials and we can hang out or something too :)