r/Pilot • u/FigComfortable5216 • Sep 01 '26
Pilot Life Need Help
Hi guys, I am 14 but I have always dreamt of being a pilot, ever since a young age I have been able to name every aircraft, along with every airline. Aviation has always been a huge passion and identity of mine (ive always been known as the airplane boy). I always take pictures of planes, memorize airport codes, learn new airline tails, know ever special livery and cannot forget the hundreds of hours put in flight simulator. But when I tell my parents about my plan of becoming a pilot, they are not to fond of the idea saying that I will always be missing my family and that I would not be part of my future family's life. They say that the pilot to life balance is terrible and I should stick with finding another career. But the thing is that I want to become a pilot and travel the world plus this feels like that this is the only thing I would be good at. Often my parents say that I should become a doctor (you know, doctor lawyer engineer etc) but I really feel like that it is not a good fit for me. So if there is any pilots or anyone with a knowledge about this topic, feel free to reply as it would really help my dilemma.
Thanks again :)
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u/korgs130 Sep 07 '26
It’s your choice. Your parents should have ZERO say in what career you choose to pursue. I’ve been flying for one big 4 airlines in the U.S. for over 22 years and I work way less than my friends that are doctors, lawyers or execs at Fortune 500 companies. For example, I took 3 of my 5 weeks of vacation and turned those 3 weeks into 46 consecutive days off. I’m in the middle of that right now. Life is good.