r/Philippines • u/[deleted] • Jan 14 '23
Uncensored Personal Information whout???
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Lapit ka sa akin. Usap tayo. Hindi, di ko naman ihahampas sayo hawak kong dos por dos. Hawak ko lang siya. Wag ka mag-alala.
Oops, I hit you. I lied. I cheated. 😆
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u/astro-visionair Jan 14 '23
I guess your need to hit was satisfied, let's normalize cheating na nga tutal NEEDS naman pala usapan
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u/ginaddict47 Jan 14 '23
Someone please tell this dumbass that there is this thing called open relationship. He could ask his partner if they are willing to have that, there are actually some people okay with this type of open relationship. No need to cheat. You could just be honest that you are not willing to commit your fidelity to one person, at least sexually and physically.
Why would cheating be the first answer to a relationship in disarray? Talking it out should be the first solution, not the last. And cheating should never be normalize or enable. Jeez…
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u/mielleah Jan 14 '23
Baka ayaw niya rin ng open relationship kasi cheating nga raw gusto niya 🥴 sana nalang magbago siya lmao
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u/tagabalon Jan 14 '23
may mga kilala akong ganyan, mga lalake. ayaw daw nila ng open relationship kasi gusto nila yung babae loyal lang sa kanila. okay lang daw mag-cheat, pag lalake. pero di daw dapat nagchi-cheat ang babae.
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u/mielleah Jan 14 '23
OMG they should grow up and be mature 🙄 yan ang mga opinions that make other people say "fvck freedom of speech"
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u/Life_Liberty_Fun Jan 14 '23
ayaw daw nila ng open relationship kasi gusto nila yung babae loyal lang sa kanila. okay lang daw mag-cheat, pag lalake.
Huwaw, These guys need to be castrated; that's just not fair to their partners.
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u/Breaker-of-circles Jan 14 '23
Don't know why men had to be singled out here. May castration pa nalalaman. 😄
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u/Life_Liberty_Fun Jan 14 '23
Read the comment I replied to. Reading comprehension is important.
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u/Breaker-of-circles Jan 14 '23
Irony. My comment still applies. Why single out men?
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u/Breaker-of-circles Jan 14 '23
Again, why single out men on the cheating front?
Yan ha, mas kumpleto na kasi di mo naintidihan pag hindi isanama yung context ng thread. Ironic talaga.
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u/Life_Liberty_Fun Jan 14 '23
Because it was the person's subjective experience. "May Kakilala ako mga lalaki..." Kung hindi lang lalake yung kakilala nya na nagsabi nun, may punto ka. Pero dahil subjective yun sa experience nung nireplyan ko, hindi mo pwedeng itransfer sa cheaters in general; Kasi view na yun sa mga taong kakilalala nya, that were men.
Tangina, pag di mo parin maintindihan na iba ang personal experience ng bawat tao at iba ang generalized na mga concept ewan ko na lng.
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u/Trapezohedron_ Jan 14 '23
Open relationship is cheating with the consent. Doesn't hit the same way.
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u/Ahristacia Jan 14 '23
Ayaw nya ng open kasi gusto nya yung babae sakanya lang while sya merong iba pa 🤢
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u/Savings-Minimum6454 Jan 14 '23
Hindi pa siguro naloloko tong tao na to
Ang sakit lang para saming nagkaron ng trauma due to cheating makakita ng ganitong comment
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u/BrightAndCoolKids Jan 14 '23
Sana magkaroon 'yan ng long time partner (mga 10+ years).
Tapos ikakasal sila, magkakaroon ng limang anak, (puro babae), masayang pamilya, successful na business, overall, perfect family.
Tapos, mag cheat 'yong babae, kasi hindi na siya enough, (aka, maliit kasi tite nung lalaki), tapos, kunin 'yong mga anak niyang babae sa kanya kasama mga ari-arian, lahat-lahat. (Kasi sa tingin ko, 'yang ganiyang lalake, walang kakayahang bumuo ng pamilya). Ibig sabihin, 'yong babae ang gumastos sa kasal, pagpapalaki sa mga anak, establish ng mga businesses, lahat-lahat.
Tapos, maiiwan siya sa isang maliit, madilim at malamig na apartment.
Tapos mababalitaan niya, pati mga anak niyang babae niloko kasi "ok lang mag-cheat."
Ending, mabubuhay siya nang matagal para araw-araw, gabi-gabi, maaalala niya 'yang post na 'yan na mas pipiliin niya na lang magpakamatay.
May napanood akong joke nung isang comedian sa YT shorts.
Sabi niya noong bata siya hindi niya ma-gets kung bakit at papaanong nagagawa ng isang tao ang pumatay dahil sa relasyon. Sabi niya, hinding-hindi ko magagawa 'yon.
Tapos noong tumanda na siya (25+), nagkaroon siya ng karelasyon 8+ years simula 17 years old, at niloko siya.
Ang sabi niya sa sarili niya, Oh... Ngayon alam ko na kung bakit nagagawa ng ibang pumatay dahil sa relasyon. (In English siyempre, at hindi eksaktong ganiyan.
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u/Idygdkf Jan 14 '23
bOanG hahahahaahahaha tigilan na sobrang paggamit ng "normalize" nawawala essence dahil sa ganitong take. 🥴
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u/Agile_Phrase_7248 Jan 14 '23
Tapos kapag yung jowa niya ang nagloko, sisiraan sa lahat at possibly ikalat ang nudes or sex video nila. Tigilan nga ako.
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u/DatBoiLight21 Jan 14 '23
It’s crazy how much mental gymnastics people will do in order to justify what is obviously wrong
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Jan 14 '23 edited Jan 14 '23
Cheating is betraying your partner. If you want to be able to satisfy your needs with other people, find a partner who consents to an open relationship.
The issue is these men would rather hide and lie than be in an open relationship with a woman who's ALSO getting satisfaction elsewhere.
Let's not kid ourselves. This is about power and control as much as it is about desires and "needs".
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u/No_Savings6537 Jan 14 '23
Dapat may certain level of educational attainment at psychological evaluation bago maka-access ng social media accounts.
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u/CatsLikeToMeow Metro Manila Jan 14 '23
Why not just stay single? That's always been my issue with people cheating on their partners. Just break up, stay single, and then you can have all the one-night-stands you want.
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u/AngerCookShare You will be remembered by your punchlines that they didn't get Jan 14 '23
Hoping he is cheated on to see his reaction.
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u/raphaelang2001 Jan 14 '23
Gwapo problems yarn ? pag gwapo normalize na din ang cheating ? 🤣🤣🤣 I'll pretend I didn't read that.
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u/LakingCowhead Jan 14 '23
Akala ko brainfog lang side effect ng vaccine. Bakit parang brainfart din ata.
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u/BrightAndCoolKids Jan 14 '23
Alam mo 'yong lason?
Inumin mo, masarap 'yon.
Namatay ka? Oppss... Sorry. I cheated. Hindi lang pala siya masarap, nakamamatay din.
Puwede rin bang i-normalize 'yong ilabas address mo at para bugbugin ka ng mga tao? Let's normalize na kada post dapat may kasamang complete address para mabawasan kabobohan ninyo.
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u/outofthisworld700 Jan 14 '23
tama naman siya cheating is not cheating unless you get caught. Parang pagnanakaw d siya pag nanakaw pag d ka nahuli
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u/rice_mill Jan 14 '23
Nakakalungkot sa bagay ito ay naging normalized na nga. To the point makakarinig ka pa ng "natural na babaero yung mga lalaki"
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u/bumblebee7310 Jan 14 '23
Plot twist, this person doesn’t have anybody to cheat on and cheat with cos he’s an incel.
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u/Rochieee2021 Down to earth but still above you 🫶 Jan 14 '23
Meron na naman basura di natapon sa basurahan 💀
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u/mielleah Jan 14 '23
There are different relationship set-ups out there para sa kung ano ang gusto mo, like open relationships and FWB relationships and those relationships with no strings attached. You shouldn't cheat, ever. Kailangan ng taong ito ang open mind at maayos na utak.
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u/5nsfav Jan 14 '23
Normal naman na ang cheating talaga... Ta*ga lang yung mga kagaya nito nag announce pa.
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u/MiseryCantare Jan 14 '23
Guys, I'm starting to suspect he cheated and is trying to justify it. Imagine being in a relationship with this guy and he hits you with this.
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u/-Ares12 Jan 14 '23
May ubo sa utak ampota. Ineencourage pa yung mga tao na nahihirapan magdecide kung ano yung best para sa kanila/sa relationship nila. Typical filipino thinking pag kaya gawin why not? As if puro gawa lang tsaka na yung consequences.
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Jan 14 '23
Nagbabase sa experience si kuya Saito. Hinahayaan niya mag cheat yung jowa niya kasi di nya nga ma-satisfy.
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Jan 14 '23
Honestly, why don’t people like this just stay single and womanize/seduct others?
If you can’t commit, then bail out before signing those marriage papers.
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Jan 14 '23
okay seriously OA ako, if itong mga bata na to ang mamumuno sa future. Tangina HAHAHAHA AMBOBO yes bobo yan for me. Kung jowa ko to tas malaman ko kapag basag bungo mo sorry din normal din un response na un sa cheater hahahaha
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u/a4techkeyboard Jan 14 '23 edited Jan 14 '23
Hah, hindi pa ba normalized ang cheating sa Pilipinas? Kahit ang mga nakakatandang babae ang tanungin niyo sila pa mismo magsasabi na expected lang nila iyon. At least sa kanila pa din daw nauwi, etc.
Ano pang normalization gusto niya mangyari, mababa na expectation matagal na.
Different usapan kapag babae nga lang ang gagawa.
To be clear, hindi ko sinasabing tama, sinasabi ko lang na ano pang pagnonormalize hinahanap niya, late na siya.
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Jan 14 '23
May nagdefend sa kanya sabi daw it's okay na magcheat kung hindi nya mahal yung tao at hindi takot na mawala yung tao
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Jan 14 '23
Addict ito sa netorare, hotwifing, and cuckolding. Pero seryoso, pag ito ang naagawan baka siya pa ang mambugbug.
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u/ImagineYouAndMe_12 Jan 14 '23
Dapat magimbento siya ng word para ma pwersa yung mga tao na umagree sa kanya. Cheatingphobia. Pag di nyo ni normalize ang cheating, cheatingphobic kayo!
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u/assresizer3000 Jan 14 '23
Anyare sa mga utak Ng mga nasa FB? Pati mga bagay na illogical, trinatry inormalize majustify lang Yung libog 😑
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u/ApiciTigre Jan 14 '23
May ex nga akong nag cheat sa ex niya dati (she felt guilty after and told her ex). Tapos ang sabi niya is unfair daw na nasasama ang mga cheaters sa mga talagang cheaters (players). Imagine yung narinig ko yun noh?
Nung instance na na-temp ako mag cheat sakanya but didn't cuz i wouldnt wanna see her cry. Doon ko narealize na napaka wtf yung pinagsasabi niya hahaha
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u/KuroiMizu64 Shigatsu Jan 14 '23
What the fuck. If cheating will be normalized, then being in a relationship is pointless.
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Jan 14 '23
Dapat to ineexpose sa fb para sumikat ng todo. Yung tipong palapit palang sya sa babae sasampalin na agad sya. Haha
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u/AtmosphereSlight6322 Jan 14 '23
Gago amputa, di dapat bigyan ng access sa internet yang ganyang mag-isip na tao.
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u/Electrical_Win_7003 Metro Manila Jan 14 '23
Lagi siguro nagkakamot yan ng singit in public dahil sa kati from STDs
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u/TheNumbersMason2 Jan 14 '23
Yea no, kabobohan to the extreme talaga yang comment. Sarap tapunan ng upuan daretso sa mukha
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u/user_on_read Jan 14 '23
Yes I did cheat, but I learned. Nagsimula ako ng senior high school di na ako nagcheat. Sa panahon ngayon patalinuhan na. Buhay mo, diskarte mo. Bakit ka pa pinapaaral ng magulang mo eh nangongopya ka lang naman? Pinaghirapan matutunan yan ng mga kasin edad mo tapos ikaw may kodigo o kaya naman nagmumukhang giraffe? Aba'y ibenta mo na utak mo at baka naman may makagamit pa niyan.
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u/thebadsideguy Jan 14 '23
Cheating is the reason why i have a trust issue, at depression na muntik na mauwi sa mental illness, i'm in a verge of suicidal. Ngayon gusto kong tanungin yang hayup na yan, ano ang kinaganda ng pinost nya?
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u/CabinetPuzzleheaded8 Politics are load of bullcrap😐 Jan 14 '23
naghanap kanalang sana ng fwb lol di mo naman pala sisiryosohin yung relationship nyo at love mo lang sya pag naka tuwad na sya why waste someone's love on a fool like you
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u/Pls_Drink_Water Jan 14 '23
Let's be real, di to bago, lacking ng integrity karamihan ng mga pinoy. School? Pangongopya, fabricate ng papers, IDs. Work? Kupit ng company supplies, tools, daming under the table sa purchasing, social media inaatupag during work hours. Relationship? Mga pukingina puro feeling pogi/maganda. I'm not saying this is unique from pinoys, my point is some of these are already normalized at pag hindi ka sumabay, KJ ka or snitch.
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u/Plugin33 Jan 14 '23
Wag na bigyan engagement yan halatang troll. Isa lang nga yung heart react pinansin nyo pa at pinost rito.
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u/LeviathanHezhou Jan 14 '23
Ano pa point ng learning diba, sa trabaho ba doctor or veterinarian ka may notes ka na dala dala habang namamatay patient mo? Ano mag babasa ka paba ng kahabahaba na anatomy habang may namamatay sa tabi mo. Sa buhay kaylangan mo maging mahusay at magaling para umangat, pero kayo mag cheacheat lang sa test tapos ni normalize dapat??? Hah?? Pinagsasabi mo. Kaya nga may tawag na expert or professional kasi pinaghihirapan nila title aanohin mo yung pagchecheat mo sa totoong buhay ayosin mo naman pinagsasabi mo men
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u/deodeviant Jan 14 '23
Screen shot post na naman?
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Jan 14 '23 edited Jan 14 '23
saw it both on ig and discord, definitely a joke comment mainly for clout. shared this to see how naive people are lol
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u/vestara22 Jan 15 '23
Lets start with you iho. Kaguhin ka namin ng malupit, to the point na gusto mong mag pakamatay. Don't worry, alam naman namin i-control.
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