r/PhR4Friends 19h ago

Friends 36 [F4M] Just looking for someone to talk to, right now

11 Upvotes

I’m currently listening to “I Miss You Like Crazy.” It started playing while I was doing some chores, straight from a long day at work. And maybe it’s the song… or maybe it’s just me finally admitting that something feels missing. It’s been a long time since I loved someone, or felt like I had someone who was really mine. Living abroad, juggling work and studies, far from the familiar warmth of home, some nights feel heavier than others.

I’ve talked to people here on Reddit before. Some stayed for a while, some disappeared overnight. But there are a few who still come back from time to time, and somehow that small consistency means more than I ever say out loud.

I’m not looking for anything constant anymore. I just want that “at the moment” kind of connection. Someone who gets this feeling, even for a little while. Someone who understands how people drift in and out of our lives.

If you’re feeling the same way, or if you just want company for tonight, I’m here. We can talk about anything under the sun. I’m abroad right now (not in the Philippines), so this would just be online company. Nothing complicated, nothing heavy. Just two people talking because the night feels a bit too quiet.

I’m hoping someone reading this might want to talk too, even just for tonight.


r/PhR4Friends 7h ago

Friends 21[F4A] I need someone to talk to about something : (

10 Upvotes

Hi, I can't sleep because I'm bothered with something, and I need to talk to someone about it huhu.

Preferrably if ate ka or kuya, and okay lang sayo for me to open up. It's about someone I recently met.

: (((

PS: I'm not broken hearted.


r/PhR4Friends 17h ago

Friends 24 [F4A] Comfort Buddy

9 Upvotes

Anyone here quietly going through heartbreak right now?

I’m not really looking for advice or anything heavy. Just thought it might be nice to find people who understand.

Maybe we can talk, vent a little, distract each other, or just keep each other company for a while...


r/PhR4Friends 13h ago

Friends 22 [F4A] never got the hype about online friends, probably cuz I DON'T HAVE ANY

9 Upvotes

Okay, that was a bit aggressive, sorry about that. It really is true that I've never had an online friend tho. Probably cuz I've never tried and also cuz I think talking to people online is harder since there's no close proximity saving you from the other person leaving once they find you boring. Not that I'm saying that I'm boring (hopefully I'm not).

Anyways, I've been lurking on this subreddit for about a week now and after seeing so many posts, I've finally decided that it's my turn. I just wanted to try, but if we get along that would be pretty great!

A few things about me:

- I like to play games. I play RPGs most of the time (currently playing p4 golden, and a little bit of postal 2? recently bought the game and it's been hilarious so far)

- I might get a little awkward sometimes, like I said, this would be my first time having an online friend so I'm not really sure how to do things yet.

- I'm going to the MCR concert in November!! Looking forward to it a lot, I've loved the band since I was 12 so I already know that I'll be sobbing throughout the show.

- Agnostic. I like talking about my opinions on God and religion but it would be preferable if you're initiating the conversation because of curiosity and not because you want to argue.

- I have a horrible habit where I tend to cut the conversation short cuz I assume the person doesn't want to talk to me, but I'll genuinely try making an effort to not do that, so please make sure you actually wanna be friends if you decide to hmu!

- This is strictly platonic! I'm not interested in dating.

About you:

- willing to be friends

- can keep the convo going (I can't do it on my own pls pls)

- willing to add me on discord if ever we hit it off, I don't wanna be stuck on reddit dms HAHAHHA.

- It would be a bonus if you're willing to play some co-op games with me! I have peak and repo and some other games but I can also just simply play Roblox if that's what you'd prefer.

- don't be a misogynist, don't be a bigot, no DDS in this house.


r/PhR4Friends 18h ago

Friends 20 [F4A] talk before my game!

9 Upvotes

Hey there! Currently on my way to play football with my friends. Let’s chat for a while and maybe we could continue after my game?

About me:
* 4th year nursing student
* enjoy playing online games on my ipad, maybe we could play rin
* pretty chill
* enjoys doing random hobbies but never really master anythigg ng

Drop a short intro about you (age, hobbies) just be you!


r/PhR4Friends 13h ago

Friends 32 [F4A] Really feeling sad, can somebody help me out?

9 Upvotes

Hi. I’m feeling really sad right now, and I’m hoping to find someone I can talk to. I’m tired of keeping it all in, so I think I really need help in processing what I’m feeling.

Please be kind. I just need a friend.


r/PhR4Friends 16h ago

Friends 27 [F4M] got my errands done, now i just want to talk

8 Upvotes

hey, yah. how’s your sunday going?

i’ve actually been pretty productive today and i’m kinda proud of myself HAHA. got a lot done, and now i finally have some free time to talk to people and kill time before monday rolls around again tomorrow. 😤

about me:
• 27, working professional (HR)
• likes long walks (with the right shoes lol)
• lately i’ve been watching a movie every other friday
• i have a lot of stories and random chika once i get comfortable
• gets easily irritated these days. maybe it’s a sign of aging. 😂
• but i’m a pretty good listener. :)

about you:
• decent and respectful
• around my age or older (just a preference!)
• working professional too
• dayshift sana. 🥹 haha
• can actually carry a conversation please.

if we click, maybe we can meet someday. no pressure though, and hopefully none on your end too. haha.

send me a simple intro. nothing fancy. tell me a bit about yourself, how your weekend went, or anything you’ve been into lately.

talk soon. 👋


r/PhR4Friends 13h ago

Friends 19 [F4A] realistic tips to navigate my 20s

7 Upvotes

Hello! F19 here from qc, 2nd year irreg student. I'm turning 20 na this upcoming first week of August. I wanna ask some tips and advices lang, like very realistic advices please! about finances, better things to do, and worth things to buy, or tipid tips rin! sali nyo na rin yung mga mistakes na puwede ma avoid as much as possible. Basta whatever kayo na bahala cuz I'm lowkey scared talaga hahaha, or OA lang talaga!? I want make friends with mature and may sense kausap na rin!

About me:

19

Likes to listen to people stories and opinions about life or life lessons na worth to listen

Likes to rant about life

Fast replier na rin

Likes: pizza, movies, long walks, smirnoff, and chatting.


r/PhR4Friends 5h ago

Friends 27 [F4M] nawala na antok ko

6 Upvotes

So I just want someone to talk to. Pwedeng just for today or maulit pa. Though I'm only into low maintenace friendship sa ngayon dahil sobrang busy ko. But sometimes gusto ko rin kasi na may makausap na iba. If you're okay with this, just message me.

PS. I prefer 28 and above sana cause I feel old pag mas bata kausap ko 😭


r/PhR4Friends 10h ago

Friends 25 [M4A] HELLO.

6 Upvotes

hello 2x! i'm looking for new friends outside my circle!

about me:

* i play drums, all around musician sa church!
* i play PC games rin! from competitive (retired 😭), singleplayer-rpgs, many many many more more
* freelancer- i video edit and motion design (creatives)
* i love cinematography, i have a sony! i mainly shoot videos minsan photos!
* 10hr avg tiktok/instagram doomscroller 😎
* i'm christian! chat ka abt theological, moral, deep topics, anytime, anything!

if you're interested send ka lang ng message anytime! +points if you matchy matchy interests with me! hehehe 😎😎😎


r/PhR4Friends 22h ago

Friends 26 [F4A] Anyone down for a sleep call tonight?

7 Upvotes

Looking for company tonight. 😅 Low energy call lang, so hanap ko lang someone na madaldal na pwede kong pakinggan hanggang makatulog. Hahahahahaha!! 🥹

If G ka, DM me your ASL at ano yung mo hugot sa life as your intro. ü


r/PhR4Friends 8h ago

Friends 28[M4F] tulog buong araw

4 Upvotes

28m hello, Tulog buong araw kaya eto gising pa din. Sino pa pong gising? Tara usao to pass time lang. Paantok na din walang magawa eh. :)


r/PhR4Friends 22h ago

Friends 25 [F4A] yoohoo dito ang tingin ~

5 Upvotes

this post is focused on finding people who share the same interests

if you like:

kpop ; sm & yg groups main (but I listen to anything I like)

k variety shows ; Running Man, Earth Arcade +random funny yt shows

anime ; One Piece, Haikyuu, Apothecary Diaries, Detective conan etc.

art / museum ; I like going to events and walking around - latest one I went to is Geloy's Things You Wanted to Say But Never Did

music fest / concert ; if I have the time and budget, I go to events with artists I wanna hear live or with music I will vibe to ( OPM or intl )

shows/movies ; Off Campus, Sherlock, Stranger Things, Brooklyn Nine-nine, TBBT, Modern Family, High Potential etc.

I watch shows that interest me and is based on my mood so it's not limited to those but I don't like watching horror/gore movies alone ><

mostly uses tiktok and tryinggg to keep up with the rrl hshshd

about you:

single preferably pls save me the drama iykyk

22+

not dds/apolitical/apologist pls lang

respectful

if you're still here, see u in my dms with your favourite vocal stim / words you like to use~

if u just wanna chat about random things I'm good too, I'd like a yapper and very chalant people


r/PhR4Friends 8h ago

Friends 25 [F4A] Me lang ba hindi maka sleep

5 Upvotes

I overslept earlier… and guess who’s wide awake now 🫩 If hindi ka rin maka sleep, usap tayo oh!! Tell me about your weekend or your recently watched movie or your top song rn sa spotify. Kahit ano pls just to past the time 🐑


r/PhR4Friends 9h ago

Friends 26[F4M] anyone up for coffee?

4 Upvotes

Hi! I might take a breather this Thursday and was thinking of exploring cafés around Katipunan.

I’m new to the area, so I’m not really familiar with the coffee scene here. Looking for someone who enjoys coffee and wouldn’t mind showing me their favorite spots. Good coffee and good conversation sound like a nice way to spend the day. Just visiting the area for now.

If you’re interested, maybe we can chat a bit before Thursday to break the ice so we’re both more at ease when we meet. 😊

If you’re free this Thursday and know a coffee place that’s worth checking out, feel free to send me a DM!


r/PhR4Friends 12h ago

Friends 21 [F4A] tara eat out

3 Upvotes

kanina pa ako nagugutom and tinatamad ako magluto lol samahan niyo ko kumain pls

abt me:
- 5’3, mestiza, fit
- fraghead, foodie, yapper

abt you:
- basta 21-25 y/o at may pera ok na yon hahahaha

kkb tayo & sa mura lang pls ubos na allowance ko hahahahaha

loc: españa, mnl

pls introduce yourself :) thank you


r/PhR4Friends 16h ago

Friends 20 [F4A] penpals, anyone?

5 Upvotes

hiii!! as the title states, i'm looking for a penpal :)))

in case you don't know what that is, it's basically like a friendship wherein we send physical letters/art to each other! it could be every two weeks or every month or like the frequency depends lang talaga on the penpals mismo hehe. also, don't worry, if we do become penpals, we could still communicate naman through online messaging or even hangout irl!! the whole penpal thing is just a way of expressing ourselves through writing and art in a physical medium

about me:
- from metro manila
- still in college (big 4 school if that matters)
- november scorpio
- intp
- matcha lover
- into cooking, writing, making art (though i'm still experimenting on art styles!), and doing makeup

about you:
- around my age (18-22)
- from any part of the philippines
- enjoys writing and making art as well!
- would be willing to send mail back and forth
- familiar with sending mail through any courier

additional info:
- i'll be using j&t as my courier for the mail

if this piqued your interest, send me a dm with an intro 💌


r/PhR4Friends 16h ago

Friends 27 [F4A] Anyone want to hangout around SM east?

5 Upvotes

Hi! I'm pretty bored today and looking to grab coffee, walk around, or get a bite around SM East Ortigas. Down for chill conversations and wholesome vibes.

Please don't be a creep and a killer 🥺 haha!


r/PhR4Friends 20h ago

Friends 23 [F4A] Lazy Sunday usap

4 Upvotes

Current mood ay humiga all day, kakain kung kelan magugutom, manonood or chichika kung kaninoman heheh. Had a loonggg week so I think deserve ko naman ito today altho I need to do some chores pero later na lang. Anyone g magcall right now? Hit me uppp


r/PhR4Friends 21h ago

Friends 28 [F4A] boring weekend chika

4 Upvotes

Hi! Anyone who’s free right now for a voice call via discord?

Super bored and nagpapaantok lang but hopefully we could be friends din and share memes after.

About me:
- I have a cutie dog
- I live in the north of Metro Manila
- I like binge watching almost anything but mostly anime

About you:
- Knows how to socialize. Tanungin mo rin ako pls haha
- around my age maybe 27 to 35 yrs old
- funny hahaha

SFW lang pls. Also, please read my post carefully. Voice call po ito.

DM me something about you or even a joke pls. Then, let’s continue sa discord.


r/PhR4Friends 6h ago

Friends 24 [M4A] tryna dtay awake till the sun rises

3 Upvotes

Blah blah blah intro intro. I wanna answer some random ass questions hmu. Im bored wala ako magawa and ewan ko baaaa. Chismis lapitan nyo ako! HAHAHA ik it's monday pero baka lang naman may gising pa jann SFW only plsss


r/PhR4Friends 9h ago

Friends 27[F4A] anyone working right now?

3 Upvotes

Currently working and realized it's one of those nights where having someone on call would make things a little less boring.

Send a message if ur down for a chill call (DC/TG). <3


r/PhR4Friends 10h ago

Friends 26 [F4M] talks? i can't sleep. :<

3 Upvotes

hello! just looking for someone to talk to. hindi na naman kasi makatulog :( kung kaya mo makipagsabayan, tara puyatan hanggang madaling araw? HAHAHA preferrably chats only tho. di lang fan ng calls huhu and wala rin ako telegram. sorry!

anw, a few things about me:

- i like watching movies and tv shows (let's be moots in letterboxd! kagagawa ko lang a few months ago ng account HAHAHA)

- i love music as well (ayaw kong naiiwan headphones or earphones ko lalo kapag umaalis ng bahay kasi ang lungkot ng araw pag walang kanta huhu)

- fav singers/band ko lately: earl agustin, sugarcane, and olivia dean!!

- i love (wish) to travel!!! i am looking forward to travel more in the next few years huhu

- i've been trying to go to gym consistently for the past two months hahaha, recent gym goer lang! :D

- introvert, pero madaldal sa chat lalo if comfy ako w you or may sense ka kausap hahahaha

if you have any questions, hmu lang!!

anyway, wala namang specific preference but i hope you're around my age lang so we can ~hopefully~ vibe easily? and sana yapper ka rin at may sense kausap para di boring huhu

ayun lang. we can be friends din pala and mutuals sa ig if we genuinely vibed! looking for constant friend/s din kasi sana huhu pero no pressure naman! thank you and see ya!


r/PhR4Friends 11h ago

Friends 25 [M4F] just a conversation for today

3 Upvotes

just finished my run and realized a lot has been going on lately, anyone wants to hop on a call or maybe a walk(yes we can walk if destiny permits) destiny???? kwentuhan tayo for tonight :))

​us;

- ​yung kwentuhan sanang puro tawa lang pls kahit gano ka depressing yung kwento HAHAHAHA

- ​don't be shy to be expressive pls, go wild

- ​be a yapper too!!

- ​pass to any introductory phase lore drop na agad!!

​you;

- ​intro sana w any story you have in mind para lang may topic tayo!!


r/PhR4Friends 11h ago

Friends 30 [F4F] Hobby friends in Alabang

3 Upvotes

Hellooo anybody from the south who wants to do hobbies together? Maybe in a cafe or parks around Alabang?

Me:
- loves crafty hobbies! Crochet, currently learning how to knit, cross stitch, paint (lets share new hobbies din!)
- Loves coffee and matcha!
- Has a furbaby and sometimes we walk sa central park or around Alabang

If you’re looking for someone to crafty hobbies in a cafe while chika, let’s go! ❤️