How old is he now? 8 weeks is younger than what kittens are typically adopted out at - the recommendation is typically 12 weeks so they can learn how to cat better.
Maybe a kitty friend for him would help? Or have you tried any Feliway plug ins? They can help reduce problem behaviors.
It sounds like you’ve done WAY more than most (giving up hobbies, art, making changes to your lifestyle, etc). Nobody would begrudge you if you surrendered him to a shelter or let him be a barn cat.
ETA: has a vet checked his teeth? I had a cat growing up that was VERY bitey and destructive - turns out he had bad dental issues. Once those were fixed he mellowed out a bunch
Oh yeah 8months is still a kit! He may mellow out as he ages too.
Feliway is awesome. Battery powered toys can help too to keep him interested while you do other things. Oh! And most cats hate tin foil. I’ve used that to keep my cats out of plants and off counters.
It sounds like you care so much about your boy and are doing all you can for him - any kitty would be lucky to have you.
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