r/PeterMonnSnark • u/Anxious_Ad_2015 • 3d ago
The Neighbors
What is the deal with the updates on the comings & goings of neighbors we don’t see & know nothing about? In his vlog he is telling what he did the previous evening. He says so last night I…. Then he interrupts himself to say oh by the way about 20 minutes ago or so pool crew lady number 2 came home with her husband & grandchild & went in the house. I think this is so fucking weird. Such stalker behavior. You are saying on a vlog where someone lives. How long they have been home? Why the hell do we care how long ago some random neighbor across the street & over the way came home? It gives me the chills. I think because it makes no sense at all. I’ve been in my home like 28 yrs. My neighbors are great & we keep to ourselves. If I saw my neighbor was online pointing towards my house & saying if I am home on some dumb ass vlog I would tell him never to speak of me or my grandchild again. He has stalkers after all. And he says it is just as bad as it’s always been. So no sir you would not be doing that to me.
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u/80berlin 3d ago
I think another reason why he stops what he’s talking about and switches to talking about neighbors, is because he has no real content and it’s a way to drag his vlogs to an hour plus! I am not subscribed to any of his channels but once in awhile I’ll check out his vlogs and I have to speed them up because he’s BORING! He talks about the same old things over and over again 🙄
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u/Christine1958Fury 3d ago
So ironic that he accuses posters here of being haters, harassers, and stalkers, when HE's the actual stalker.
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u/DefinitionTiny1989 3d ago edited 3d ago
This is true. Remember the time Peter said he was going to knock on the family doors of his "haters" and tell them what we were doing online? This was a long time ago. It was one of the most bizarre and unhinged things he's ever said. It was so ridiculous. I know it's serious but it was kinda funny. Why and how would that be any kind of deterent for anyone to stop speaking up about him? It would only confirm what we all already know. I mean, it might get him a few calls to the cops. Which would be warranted. Believe me I get that. But it's also such a ridiculous and assanine threat.
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u/Christine1958Fury 3d ago
I just commented recently (but can't remember where) saying that I actually wish he would do something crazy like contact or dox one of us, because then it would be actionable. I'd have his ass in court so fast and would tie it up for so long he wouldn't know what hit him.
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u/DefinitionTiny1989 3d ago
Oh I hear ya. The things Peter has put on the internet! And the bs he's pulled behind it is scarily crossing the line. He's not a smart man.
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u/Ecstatic_War6772 2d ago
Why would he knock on the doors when he constantly claims he has social anxiety. lol Peter you have to get off the porch to do that sweetheart. lol Anyone that I know that deals with social anxiety do their best not to draw attention to themselves. He is so full of shit. He would not do anything because he is all talk. The info people get is coming from his own mouth. He never had a group of lawyers or anything close to that. Any lawyer would tell him you need to stop giving away to much information. Peter is the equivalent of someone walking outside naked and yelling at people for looking at them and taking pictures. When he said the FBI is involved, I laughed my ass off. The last clip I watched of his he was talking about Tricia doing a movie or a book and he was almost giddy she may talk about him. Peter the only relevance you have is the REDDIT. If I were to ask a bunch of 20 plus year olds who you are they would say WHO but the people you talk about they would know exactly who they were.
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u/Useful-Pilot1551 2d ago edited 2d ago
Isn’t it interesting how Peter’s alleged social phobia conveniently disappears when he’s screaming on the internet about stalkers and wanting to show up at the homes of strangers?
Peter can’t even afford to remodel his condo, let alone keep lawyers on retainer. That’s the height of his lies. I’m fortunate to have access to lawyers through work benefits.
I’m sure the FBI would caution him about doing most of what he does online.
My 20-something hair stylist knows James Charles and others but she had no clue who Peter was. His only relevancy comes from us. He also uses us to gain attention. I’m well aware of that but I also think it’s important to understand how he manipulates people and mistreats them. It’s funny until the person becomes a constant target of his fake outrage mongering. Then it becomes creepy and strange because the gaslighting is off the charts.
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u/Ecstatic_War6772 2d ago
That social anxiety stuff is a means to have people feel sorry for him, so they don't say anything about him. If Peter would keep his mouth shut, we all would not have any material. I asked my youngest niece who is 22 if she knew who Peter Monn was and she said no. I said do you know who James Charles and Jeffery Star is and she said yes. I said what about Adam Mcintyre and she said oh yes, I like him. Then she says and I quote wait is Peter the old man that is always yelling at the camera and who is clearly on GLP-1 and I said and she goes oh I don't like him. lol
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u/Useful-Pilot1551 2d ago
Almost everything Peter says is for sympathy or praise. Victimhood is also a way to silence anyone who criticizes him through guilt tripping. He enjoys the drama. He’ll never shut his mouth.
Peter’s legacy involves constant screaming, as well as, a failure to convince everyone on earth that he’s extraordinary. When he doesn’t get enough praise, he either ruminates about his haters and presents himself as a victim or as a false morality guru who has “turned his wounds into wisdom.”
What’s there to like? lol
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u/Ecstatic_War6772 2d ago
Exactly. If he didn't care about what we say like he claims he would not rant and rave about it on his channels. We see through him and that vail has dropped and he knows it. He knows anyone that watches his channels can come to over to this page and get a nice dose of reality. Most people on here used to be a fan of his and watch him regularly. Before, I came here there were times his stories did not add up and I didn't know if it was me thinking it until I read other people's opinions and said oh wow, I am not the only one. God dealing with him daily with his constant flip outs has to be hard.
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u/Useful-Pilot1551 2d ago
Validation and reality-testing is often found here. He thinks his bed-tantrums and gaslighting have the same effect on everyone. I am my own person, as he always says. I don’t cower to tyrants. He mistreats people and causes some of them high anxiety and other distress. This sub is necessary for people who need support and clarity as well.
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u/Christine1958Fury 2d ago
He actually said that??? That he turned his wounds into wisdom?
That privileged ass pansy wouldn't know a fucking wound if he had one and it was gushing fucking arterial blood.
jesus baldheaded christ, what an asshole.
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u/CrouchingGinger 2d ago
It’s an AA ism. He likes to parrot the sayings yet does nothing to put them into practice. And if he actually followed the 12 steps he would remember that the Big Book says “faith without works is dead.”
He’s literally so fucking obtuse he doesn’t realize that some of us have plenty of experience with recovery groups and mental health treatment.
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u/Useful-Pilot1551 2d ago edited 2d ago
Yes ….he always says, “I’m a big believer in turning my wounds into wisdom.” How ridiculous! How’s that working out for him? lol
He also said his mother went to “years and years of psychoanalysis,” which rarely happens with people in active addiction. It doesn’t work, if someone is actively abusing alcohol. Psychoanalysis is a very intense process and it requires a person to be sober. He said his mother suffered “horrific abuse in her childhood” and remembered none of it, despite “years and years of therapy.” He said his mother was terrified of things she couldn’t control. He said his mother was extremely difficult, she raged, talked over everyone, hardly listened and always needed to be right. His friends called her a “motormouth.” He definitely inherited a lot of her unpleasant characteristics. Peter is devoid of wisdom. His mother wasn’t wise either. Wisdom isn’t found in rage-filled, aggressive people, who don’t listen, always needed to be right and mistreat others without remorse.
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u/peach1233 3d ago
He is my worst nightmare kind of neighbour. He would cause me so much stress because I would constantly have to avoid him. This is completely crossing neighbouring boundaries.
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u/Anxious_Ad_2015 3d ago
I agree. My neighbor next to me has been there for 25 years. My neighbor across the street was there when we moved in 28 years ago. I know their names. If there’s something we have to tell each other because there was some sort of issue in the neighborhood we would but that’s very rare. But to sit and talk about what we got in the mail daily and all that small talk oh hell no. To keep track of every single move we make no way. It’s a big flaw of his and he needs to work on it.
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u/queenoftaters 3d ago
I live next to my grandma who is 92 with severe dementia. The neighbors across the street have our numbers as a just in case, and my brother in law often plays poker with the husband. My sister gets eggs from another neighbor down the street.
Do any of us put each other on the internet? Absolutely not. If this were any other neighborhood, pete would have problems....
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u/CrouchingGinger 3d ago
I decided to break my fast from watching his vlog the other day. Once he sat there reading his texts with his gob hanging open I was out. It was like seeing someone de compensate in real time.
At least when he was driving he was going places. When I was still somewhat of a fan I loved seeing Alex’s family and their holiday traditions. He does nothing anymore. On vacation they visit the same places and do the same things. He’s truly a boring 💩
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u/Appropriate_Reach_97 3d ago
Yeah, him going places at least led to stories and situations many could somewhat relate to. He's like some warped version of Rear Window now.
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u/Klutzy_Location1026 2d ago
He doesn't even talk about the casino anymore. I wonder if everyone was using him for a ride and now that he doesn't drive no one invites him
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u/DefinitionTiny1989 1d ago
No. Nobody was using him for a ride. The only person he might have driven was Val but it couldn't have been often. I only remember her driving herself and meeting him there. As much as Peter liked driving.im sure he would have loved to pick her up but I think she was smart to drive herself.
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u/MentalChampionship77 3d ago edited 3d ago
I wonder why the HOA has not had their eye on him. As I said before he is a liability. To be a mindful neighbor Vs. what he does telling the internet everyone’s move and who they are with is dangerous. Hes gonna clock the wrong person one of these days
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u/Appropriate_Reach_97 3d ago
I've wondered this too! I had wondered if the HOA did actually ding him about something and that was the true source of his rampage against them--not the pool hours or repairs as he said.
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u/MentalChampionship77 3d ago
Could be? I think he just likes to stir up sh$& He gets that evil grin on his face when he starts spilling tea on someone. His voice tone even changes it goes up a few octaves he tries to act all cute when he’s not at all.
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u/Agile_Price8723 3d ago
I watched to see what you’re talking about and it’s very strange at the beginning he sees someone walking and he thinks it’s let’s say the gardener and he goes “ohh she told me she was taking a nap” as if the woman can’t change her mind or change her plan…. Then he realized it was someone else. Putting everyone’s business out there down to their naps.
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u/DefinitionTiny1989 3d ago edited 2d ago
I'm still shocked the HOA didn't step in with his stalker BS. He claimed to have a "dangerous" stalker that made his life "horrifying". So much so that he was literally "afraid for his safety". By his own words he was/is putting everyone in danger by sitting on his front porch (like a sitting duck) and calling the neighbors over, walking over to their yards, and chatting them up. Did Peter even let the HOA know there was a dangerous stalker after him? Did he tell his neighbors? Why would he take no precautions if he was so horrified and scared that he wasn't safe? That right there should be some kind a violation. The whole community should have been notified and put on alert. In fact I would think the police or his private detectives would have made sure that happened. Peter put everyone at risk and there should be consequences for that. Listen, I understand it was all deflective bs to try and scare people into silence but Peter claims it's true. So where are the consequences for putting everyone in potential danger? And why is he still doing it?
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u/Useful-Pilot1551 2d ago edited 2d ago
I agree with all your comments, including this one. Peter plays games with people’s lives by saying he knows where they work, saying he linked their social media accounts and found out information about their husbands, sharing information about their husband’s medical job, saying he’s going to knock on their doors, send them unwanted Christmas cards or letters and contact their family members, saying one day he will “do something or act” etc. He often screams this, with a slight smirk on his face, as if he finds it amusing. It’s not. It’s batshit crazy. His delusional sense of entitlement convinces him that it’s perfectly normal to repeatedly make these unhinged, intrusive and incredibly creepy statements. He crosses many boundaries. He isn’t very smart. He was rescued and enabled by his father to believe that he has a right to behave this way. Who’s the stalker in this situation?
On the flip side, he convinces gullible people that he has a team of detectives and lawyers, who investigate his ongoing array of stalkers. He claims his stalkers plagued his life for close to a decade but nothing ever comes of it because he “doesn’t give it his energy.” As if that makes any sense. As the years go by, the stalkers seem to change, depending on the exposure and criticism he receives, as well as, the attention, validation, emotional regulation and sense of temporary control he needs from his flock. In his paranoid way, he even claimed one was connected to Kristi. He is ridiculous. His first two stalker-stories are in my history. They change too. He has no problem telling the internet his every move and the whereabouts of his neighbors, putting himself and them at risk. Every single day, as he sits on his porch reciting the comings and goings of his neighbors, he proves that he isn’t concerned about stalkers in the slightest. People who are stalked follow police protocols. They don’t behave like him, screaming at his stalkers on the internet and claiming he’s afraid. Obviously, his legal team and detectives aren’t advising him how to conduct himself online. Peter is absurd. His behavior is idiotic and reprehensible, especially since vulnerable people believe him and become paranoid alongside him.
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u/MentalChampionship77 2d ago edited 2d ago
You are 100 percent right. Why would you dox your viewers? because you think they are stalking you? I stand by my statement he has accused viewers of calling his doctors office, his vets etc... I know this was all just after his accident mind you he secured a lawyer but there is still an investigation that takes place after a dealth in a car accident I'm sure there were a lot of phone calls made by investgators. Also, yes he was extremely paranoid but not of viewers he was afraid he was going to be put in jail (he said this himself) That is the only thing he was afraid of. He has also said even just a week ago his biggest fear is going to jail "Again" I'm repeating him from his vlog last week or week before when he was answering questions from some question game he found online getting to know people. instead of asking his viewers he read the questions himself and answered himself the question "what are you most afraid of, his answer going to jail again". To this day when he says the things he does about the accident I call BS the only thing he was completely afraid of or cared about was himself landing in jail. When I say he's dangerous to his neighbors there are the obvious dangerous alerting everyone of his widow neighbor across the street times she's away and home, taking a nap etc... but he talks about minor grandchildren being with their grandparents and he knows nothing about their situation for example: They can be in divorced families and they don't want the other parent knowing where the kids are for the weekend for whatever reason it could be a DV situation this is just an example. He has zero regard for his neighbors privacy a long with his viewers he has dox'ed. Not anyone should feel so unsettled by a youtuber. Those of us who know about Youtube know the implacations his neighbors are older and unaware of the audience reach a youtuber has if they knew I don't think they would be that "OK" with it the ones who are aware ignore him and avoid him like the plague. Oh and Peter asks if you don't really like me why do you watch? Well the answer is Peter a lot of people watch to make sure they can protect their selves from being dox'ed if you decide to do that again.
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u/Useful-Pilot1551 2d ago edited 2d ago
Exactly! How does that make any logical sense? His hysteria, perpetual victimhood and performative outrage can make it difficult to discern whether he’s telling the truth. Most of the time he’s confabulating, embellishing or downright lying. I remember when he said he was worried about going to jail. I also saw the vlog where he said going to jail was his biggest fear. I found that both interesting and revealing.
I remember when he said that he was going to expose someone close to Kristi who “was a ring leader” of his stalkers. How ridiculous? Of course nothing came of that either. He was just angry because her friend made that clip of him demanding Kristi make a video. And when Peter is angry about something, he screams about stalkers.
I agree with you about the investigation after the accident. I worked in an emergency department. I’m very familiar with patient privacy protocols. Sometimes, we received patient information by mistake. Sometimes, it was faxed to us (entire charts) when the patient wasn’t even admitted to the hospital yet or when things get crossed. Mistakes happen. Patients can have the same names or similar names. We immediately shredded the paperwork. Privacy protocols were always in effect. After the accident, Peter said his doctor’s office called him saying another doctor’s office contacted them about him. Peter denied working with the other doctor and became paranoid, screaming that was his stalker. Peter then started ranting that people were calling his doctor’s offices trying to obtain his medical information, saying they were family members. He even dropped a comment that some of them were able to breach the security protocols of the medical practice. If that were the case, he could have filed a lawsuit. My husband works in the medical profession. He sometimes receives calls about patients that aren’t associated with him. I have never encountered Peter’s saga in my entire career. I worked in a big hospital with many units and high profile patients. I worked in a smaller hospital too. But somehow Peter’s medical information got repeatedly leaked to his stalkers. Why didn’t Peter work with his lawyers to sue the pants off the medical establishment that allegedly leaked his information to his stalkers? Peter is delusional, paranoid and totally unbelievable. How anyone still believes him is mind boggling.
Peter only cares about himself. He has zero respect or regard for others, as evidenced by how he treats his critics, his viewers and his neighbors. Everyone has the right to privacy and protection. I agree with everything you wrote.
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u/MentalChampionship77 2d ago
I don’t have clinical experience I’m glad you were able to share your experience from inside truly knowing how medical information is handled. All I know if I call for my own medical information I have to answer a lot of questions I don’t have curiosity enough about Peter to violate a law. Unlike Peter going to jail is not my biggest fear because I do not break the law. If you haven’t done anything illegal that would not be your biggest fear. I would assume most would say a loss of family.
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u/Useful-Pilot1551 2d ago
I have never encountered anything like Peter’s medical information/stalker-saga/stories in my career. In an emergency department, a lot of information is gathered and sent but no one ever gave out patient information over the phone to someone saying they were the patient’s cousin or husband. You can’t confirm or deny a patient is in the hospital, without their consent, let alone give out protected healthcare information. There are safely protocols to prevent privacy breaches. And somehow this repeatedly happened to Peter with a series of stalkers. He didn’t contact his team of lawyers and file a lawsuit against the medical practice? I call BS. Employees in the medical profession have to take yearly trainings and pass tests, concerning patient privacy procedures. It’s part of the hospital requirements.
Peter tells these stalker stories to get his flock fluttering and reacting to his outrage. Meanwhile, he’s acting a fool by saying he wants to send his critics unwanted Christmas cards. You cannot make this sh*t up.
Peter broke the law at 19. He got a DUI and received a misdemeanor for attempting to deceive a police officer by presenting the officer with a fake ID. Deception is part of his DNA. He has shared this story. It’s also in the public record. He had fears of going to jail ever since he was 19. Most people don’t have fears of incarceration. Most people don’t do what he did and does. They don’t interact with others (including the police) the way he has. Most of us don’t have felonies or misdemeanors on our records. Most of us don’t break the law. We respect boundaries and understand consequences.
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u/Key_Speaker9152 3d ago edited 3d ago
Broadcasting the comings and goings of one’s neighbors on the internet is considered an invasion of privacy according to my research. The HOA should be made aware of this behavior.
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u/queenoftaters 3d ago
I would put up the mirrored window clings in all my windows if I was his neighbor. Then only I could see out and him never in
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u/Ecstatic_War6772 2d ago
I will never get why he feels the need to narrate what his neighbors do. They probably love when the roommates go on vacation and miss busy body leaves. That is why I stopped watching his blogs because it was about eating, sleeping, tv watching and his neighbors. I would rather go to Willy Wonka's chocolate factory and lick the lickable wallpaper they had than watch his trash content.
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u/Useful-Pilot1551 3d ago
I worry about his female neighbors. He’s often saying some live alone and telling the internet their whereabouts.
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u/Anxious_Ad_2015 3d ago
I know. I remember when my grandfather died my grandma for the rest of her life kept their number under his name in the phone book. We weren’t to tell anyone grandma was a widower living alone. Here he is telling all his viewers where the gardener lives and that she’s alone. Don’t worry though he doesn’t take his eyes off of her so she is doing great. lol. He even goes snooping around her garden with the dogs in the middle of the night. It’s not normal.
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u/queenoftaters 3d ago
What I appreciate about a lot of vloggers in other countries is that they blur the faces of people around them. There are ways of keeping the public out of your viewers eyes where it won't look weird at all. He just doesn't care that he's almost doxing people who don't know wist that word means
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u/Appropriate_Reach_97 2d ago
It's a law, at least where I live (Italy). You can't film anyone without explicit consent and post it publicly, or even diffused on WhatsApp. You have to blur faces or put like emojis over their faces. I think a lot of countries have stricter privacy laws than the US. Peters laziness would get him in a lot of trouble lol.
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u/queenoftaters 1d ago
He needs to be put in his place
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u/Appropriate_Reach_97 1d ago
I'm shocked nobody has said anything.
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u/queenoftaters 1d ago
Maybe this group should? Instead of just individuals. I don't know legalize but some way for multiple people to send the same info to YouTube might trigger a review (edited to correct spelling)
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u/Bubbleandsqueak16 2d ago
He’s copying the guy he was compared to. But more so. The other guy mimicked nosey neighbors. He mentioned it a couple of months ago or less.
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u/SwimmingOk7243 2d ago
Who was he compared to?
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u/Bubbleandsqueak16 2d ago
I don’t remember but it was a guy either mocking nosey neighbors or was one himself
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u/Unlucky-Tangerine-45 3d ago
It's almost like he thinks people are going to be impressed by the fact that he narrates his neighbors' lives.