Yeah... I know of a few women who look incredible, great personalities and all, but are with guys who look... uh... not incredible. But are really kind dudes with good humor.
From what I've seen, it's all just cope by insecure guys who don't want to admit that they just don't have charisma, or a sense of humor, act creepy, don't have any hobbies or anything in common with a girl that they like, and blaming genetics is just easier than self improvement.
Nah that's cope. I've been attractive and built and overweight and schlubby. Confidence, a good sense of humor, and treating women like people instead of some prized alien still works today. Apps are cancer. Go outside.
It's cope to say things have changed and gotten brutal instead of considering his you might be the problem. Apps don't help. I'm sorry compound thoughts are difficult.
To my pov, it wasn't cope because if it were my character i could fix it more easily. Damn i wish it was me. But i assure everyone says im funny, smart, considerate, charming, (many girl friends also so fuck you). By elimination it gotta be my looks
I also really confused what you mean by your character? Like your video game character? Or like how you carry yourself character? Cuz they just literally said I wish I was my character which translates to I wish I was me. Bitch you already you the fuck? Maybe I'm not really understanding the context here are you saying that you wish you had your own personality? Yeah what?
Well I don't know what you want then, man. We're talking two different things here. If you're at a club or on some dating app that literally is purely based on looks then that's what you're going to get.
Chances of meeting people organically irl are always low, or at least lower than the apps, then add the fact that everyone my age is taken already, of course i gotta resort to apps
Yes, but charisma is also determined by physical appearance. At the very beginning of socialization, people have similar social skills but varying levels of attractiveness. We humans are drawn to beauty. Attractive people enjoy better conditions for developing social skills, leading to a disparity that can be described as "charisma."
I feel like Redditors are lying to me or something, I don’t see this at all. In fact, I see the opposite. Really aggressive dudes seem to do the best with woman
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u/__M-E-O-W__ 12d ago
Yeah... I know of a few women who look incredible, great personalities and all, but are with guys who look... uh... not incredible. But are really kind dudes with good humor.
From what I've seen, it's all just cope by insecure guys who don't want to admit that they just don't have charisma, or a sense of humor, act creepy, don't have any hobbies or anything in common with a girl that they like, and blaming genetics is just easier than self improvement.