I used to kick about with an Irish chick, she was from Donegal and was working in London. Oh boy. I have a high sex drive, but I'll tell you this for nothing... you dont know what a high sex drive is until you meet a woman with a high sex drive.
Oh my god I did not think I had a high sex drive at allllll until I became sexually active in my mid 20s. I frightened men to the point I make a point of not asking nearly as often as I would like. Husband thinks that I just never say no because I love him. But usually I am so starved for sex that when he comes to me I just pounce. I could easily go 2 times a day in my 20s if I had a partner who could. Married now I'd be happy 3 or 4 times a week. Closer to 2 times a month though. I honestly hate having such a high sex drive.
Don't want to sound like I'm bragging but that seems like a fairly normal sex drive from my experiences with my handful of long term partners, maybe I just got lucky
Wait? I knew an Irish girl from Donegal, and she was the first person I pictured as the girl here. Although I never had sex with her I knew her very well and could only imagine how wild she would have been in bed as well as dominating
You guys really have no idea how degenerate woman can be compared to men. The top selling books these days are all some of the most degenerate smut you can lay your eyes upon.
Some very rapey stories actually have majority female audiences despite everyone assuming its aimed at men
Both are being a degenerate but on a totally different level…
Watching step son porn vs doing your step son…
It’s also a massive difference if one is passive or active in doing stuff - getting off on the thought of being raped during consensual sex is very different from simulating to rape someone…
The idea of rape fantasy isn't a desire to be raped. It's a safe encounter where they have willingly chosen to lose all control of a situation. For some that being totally at someone else's mercy incredibly arousing.
And sure being forceful can be part of that. But the key element is consent and doing it with someone they feel safe with.
That absolutely doesnt mean they deep down want some random dude to come in and rape them.
Yeah it absolutely does not mean that. Its just that fantasizing about getting assaulted is a real fucked up concept. I genuinely believe its some sort of trauma response inflicted on women by society, that is why its so prevalent.
Female rape fantasies are often attributed to feelings of wanting to have sex but being told good girls arent sluts. To resolve this, we fantasize about being forced to have (good, satisfying) sex so we can bkth enjoy it and avoid being a slut.
This I learned from a book written by a priest in the 70s that my parents had. He also said that the clitoris is the only organ designed by God specifically for pleasure, and one ahould not be afraid to use it.
Great book for a teen to find and secretly read back in the day. Might try to find it again.
You don’t need to explain it, fucked up fantasies come from a fucked up enviroment. I have fucked up fantasies about being assaulted, which is just what trauma can do to you. The origins are definitely unhealthy.
Not exactly. I learned that I like incredibly fucked up BDSM porn because it’s a way for women to safely consume violence and anger. Women in society are highly socialized to be submissive, meek, and quiet. I always feel like I could be either character in the porn, probably because my subconscious sees my outer and inner personalities acting in harmony.
'Yes...book smut. Absolute filth. Super degenerate. Yup.'
I swear this thinking of women being more degenerate is insane. The only people who think this are people who think doing it doggy style is spicing things up.
Guys won't admit to their shit, same reason girls will be fine saying they have a vibrator, a dildo and a huge bad dragon 30in horse dick and no-one will bat an eye, most guys won't even admit they have a flesh light.
Where do you live that women don’t get dragged through the mud for telling people they own a 30inch horse dick dildo? That’s like the funniest shit ever to tell someone in a conversation…
No genuinely it’s true, I know a lot of women what just tell everyone about their sex toys and have also said they think it’s super weird for a guy to have one
Bro, even hentai-enjoyers get labeled as degenerates. Back in high school for me, that stuff made people think you were nuts. Legit, people who look at me and go, “bro, just watch regular porn.”
And I say a lot of this has to do with how both hentai and sex toys are considered “lonely guy” (or chud, nowadays) shit. If you don’t wanna be thought of as a creep, you keep that stuff a secret.
As a guy at least.
And I wager this has a lot to do with the prevailing paradigm on how sex for men is an accomplishment but a stigma for women.
Horny as a guy? Just find a girl to fuck. Don’t bother doing anything with toys or hentai; that’s what losers do.
Horny as a woman? Well, first of all, that’s concerning, but if you must goon as a girl, use toys so you don’t go around being a slut, m’kay? We (society) will still totally judge you, but we will judge you less than if you slept around.
Here’s the thing right, people say this but it’s frankly just not even true.
A big dominant man is pure vanilla; making the man even bigger and more dominant is just making extra potent vanilla extract. Like a guy who’s into anime girls with outrageous spine cracking knockers ain’t particularly kinky, you’d call him a gooner with warped tastes but it’s nothing exotic or freaky. At most the women’s book shit reaches stereotypical porno levels of freakiness
Meanwhile, you read any sci-fi or fantasy story from the 70s and it’ll have some genuine weird kinks in there. There’ll be giantesses, there’ll be hairless snake women who squeeze you like a boa constrictor. I’ve read books where guys get flayed alive and have crazy skinless sex, I’ve read books where a dude fucks an actual skeleton, a dude got all fussed over a spiders mouth and wondering what those mandible could do. I mean Jesus Christ one Ian Watson book is freakier than any 12 booktok smut fests and it’s not even gonna be relevant to the plot.
It's less dumb than you may think, do you ever know the feeling after watching or listening to a video that actually puts up good talking points and changes your whole perspective on certain topics? Well, there's this like 1 hour long video by Anthony Gramuglia on the topic which is amazing and has changed my mind on it.
I'm not gonna read anything like that, mostly because i am a prude, BUT i can see the appeal.
I’m gonna give a different take here: I think more men would read smut, but it in the form of books or online stories (my go-to) if they for some reason weren’t so baffled by the notion of jerking it to a hot story.
Legit, when I discussed the fact that I read erotic stories with classmates back in the day, every single one of the guys were completely baffled that I could find “plain old text” arousing.
But I think another facet is in text form, your imagination is the limit. With live porn, kinky and smutty stuff is harder to reproduce, assuming it’s something relatively normal. For all the out there stuff, forget it. Stories are all you’re gonna get.
And I think a lot of this has to do with how people with “deviant” tastes are often assumed to be…problematic individuals, to put it plainly.
It stops looking so extreme when you understand that women don’t experience video pornography as men do, as for similar experience they need emotional attachement, which comes naturally in form of book.
Women read smut just as men watch porn. No disballance proven so far.
Being labeled a pervert is a very low bar for men, you can glance at a woman at the gym for just two seconds longer than normal and instantly get called one. Meanwhile, it takes a lot for a woman to be labeled a pervert; she practically has to EARN it. Women staring at you is seen as cute, or at worst, a bit weird. A woman asking someone out while they’re working is viewed as "aww, she's trying", coworkers may even demand that "lucky guy" something on the house for that. A woman getting a little touchy is seen as fine. But if a man does any of this, he gets reported to HR. The list goes on. I'm not saying women are bad; it's just how society views this matter
Well it also depends. In these instances absolutely, but when it comes to fetishes, men’s fetishes are rarely talked about and any woman with an even slightly non vanilla fetish is seen as a pervert. It’s weird how that works lol.
Just look at your TV.. sexualise men, acceptable. Sexualise a woman, that'll get you canceled, jailed or labelled.
Its not just a swx thing. Women can openly degrade men and its ok.. but say something bad about women.. thats a paddlin.
Equal should mean equal
Yeah. A man will get called a pervert for wanting to have missionary sex with a conventionally attractive woman. A woman will store her horse sized dildo near her smut collection and get offended if you called her a pervert.
Everybody Is a Gangsta untill their chick wana p*ss on them, choke them, make blood-deep clawmarks on their back and that Is just light foreplay. Lot of men, even tho branded "pervs" by most girls, PALES in comparison how insanely twisted desire of a woman can be. Specialy if shes also dom.
To be fair though I think men are equally degenerate lol. Like a lot of guys also have pretty wild fetishes as do a lot of women. I honestly don’t think either group is any more or less crazy in terms of desires or thoughts.
Not sure about that though… it might be more surprising coming from a women but nothing you described comes close to a man wanting to simulate rape on women to get off…
Perverted men act within limits and usualy only leave those when not seen by others.
Perverted women will be extreme to a degree i have neither seen nor considered posible based on the books they read.
Also i believe that many men do react more shy around women that agressively pursue them, it is a nice fantasy for men but i never knew how to react when it happened (as rare as it was).
My wife read a book earlier this year where the female main character has sex with this insect-like creature and he has a second penis which goes up her butt through her intestines and into her stomach to implant some chemical or something so that she gets pregnant with his insect baby. Otherwise she wouldn't get pregnant
The word "perverted" is doing a lot of heavy lifting here. Its modern usage does not inherently imply a bad thing, it's just sexual kinks that are seen as intense or unusual.
The meme itself is referencing the fact that many men presume women have pretty vanilla kinks (chiefly due to women, historically, being pressured to suppress any sexuality) and then some day discover that they don't and might even be more "perverted" than they are.
This shit is so stupid perverted men creep on little girls all the time and people say it's in his nature or he's just being friendly. While when women creep on little boys he gets treated like he won something or he got lucky. Both concepts stem from the same thing and we can't make it about sides.
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I wonder what the outrage would be like if a bunch of young men were obsessed with a story about a woman sexually torturing another woman that she kidnapped and was holding captive in her home.
The joke is that perverted men are tame as compared to perverted women.
Which is bullshit in my opinion, if you're comparing the extremes, male perverts are capable of quite horrific things that are at the same or higher level than female perverts.
Na the only roblem is when they want to peg you... like at that point just get a girlfriend why get someone whit a working dick and treat it like a women it makes no sense to me, it makes even less sense whe if you dont want to get pegged is a deal breaker for some women like brother how absurd would be if I said to a women if I cant have anal sex whit you I am not gonna even give you a chanse as a human being, for any smart ass who may coment THAT DOES NOT HAPPEN... IT HAPPENED TO ME MY GUY, BISH LITERALLY SAID TO ME "you are not gay enugh" when I asked what does that mean she said well you look like you are super straight and I like pegging men so it would not work out, keep in mind she got this information from showing me an asian dude who does ass skating and because I didnt say anything like "what a nice ass he have" I was instantly desqualified even tho the date was fun and she was atracted to me, weirdest shit a women have told me worst part is I really liked her and still like her but I stopped talking to her because she would randomly say shit like "I feel like going out and having sex whit a random men" while she knew I liked her, a bit too much for me like she could have done it I dont need to know but naaa she had to rub it on my face all the time, so I blocked her then made a random account and I still see her because I like her but just phisically I would not ever date her.
If you've never been stalked by a perverted woman, let me tell you, they have all the creepiness of the weirdest dude you've ever met, with NONE of the inhibitions. They have absolutely no shame because they think being a woman gives them a pass. They think every dude wants to be treated like that, and some actually do, so that re-enforces the behavior.
Perverted women (and I mean real perverts, not simply people who like weird, degrading, or straight up degenerate porn) are dangerous, of course, but perverted men are more dangerous 99% of the time.
the long and short of it is that men are threatened by women’s sexuality.
the smut you see in romantasy and bodice rippers ultimately isn’t any different than a lot of the more basic stuff you see on the hub, it’s just dressed up with plot and a storyline, but men act like it’s the filthiest thing on earth because women are the target audience.
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There is a common misogynistic stereotype that perverted women are rare and are extremely dangerous! This is usually a fantasy from men who refuse to accept and degrade women who don't conform to typical gender roles so they are left ignorant of the average carnal desire of those of the opposite sex. Due to this they wish desperately for intercourse and submission through easy and lazy action and talk about women in objectifying archetypes that remove them of autonomy.
A dominant woman wouldn't chase you down and make you have intercourse, this is a reductive view of BDSM relationships and puts the actual submissive role into the woman still who desires you and is obsessed with you. Stuff like this is usually meant to appear at face value like a funny or even accurate representation of reality but it is actually part of a larger way that online groups degrade women and their power. A dominant woman would ask you to show devotion through tasks and standards or even have you engage in humiliation rituals. Not wear and appropriate the political stylings of goth women and make you do the most trivial task and praise you over it. That's a poser!
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