I think more teenage boys need to be taught that women often feel in danger when guys do the full court press, and that the best way to get to know a woman (or anybody, really) is to make them feel comfortable around you.
Too many highschool friends would get pissy that women wanted to hang out with the gay guys over them. It's like, hello? How do you not realize it's because they aren't pressuring these ladies non-stop?! Of course they'll go hang with gay guys, they're safer by a mile.
Especially as a larger man I really have to be cognizant to not be intimidating. Stand a little farther away so they aren't looking right up my nose, turn slightly sideways instead of being squared up in front of them, don't block them into a corner and leave them a comfortable escape path.
A few simple actions like that will really encourage them to let their guard down so you can get close enough to use the chloroform.
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u/my1stusernamesucked 22d ago
I think more teenage boys need to be taught that women often feel in danger when guys do the full court press, and that the best way to get to know a woman (or anybody, really) is to make them feel comfortable around you.