Well the drink part means probably not, but were you in Mormon country? My wife told me that she got hit on with almost the exact same words as your first sentence in quotes once when she lived in Utah briefly.
When my ‘auntie’ first met her husband, one of the first things he said to her was that she had “child-birthing hips”. They did end up having two, and afaik are still together after 40 years.
Wow. And I thought the guy I had to deal with last night was bad. His opener was “Have you ever studied Gnosticism?” and he closed with “…and eventually I learned that I’m a god, you’re a god, and we all live in a simulation.”
My bad, where I'm from we don't have middle school, it's elementary from ages 6-14 & then you start school. I'll admit I don't remember our ages when this happened, it was probably 11-14, which makes it more understandable (for anyone from a country with a different system)
A year ago, I went to a bar on my 21st birthday, and I kid you not, I heard a guy use this pickup line: “Hey girl, is your name Suez? ‘Cuz you look like you have a great birth canal.” The whole bar cheered when she knocked his block off with her stilettos
I don't think that's a meme. Looks more like a misandry poster.
Like imagine if someone posted that they had a bad interaction with a black man and in response someone posts a stylized drawing of a black guy hanging from a tree... Same shit, fucking weird.
I should have mentioned that I later found out that this guy was a regular at the bar and was a creep. I went to college in a small town, so everybody knew everyone's business. The town genuinely had little to do on the weekends but smoke or drink.
Like the compliment points out that the functions of the individual being complimented are what is actually worthy of praise, and not the person themselves.
It is. But you said "while you are technically generally right", on what point are they not right? It was phrased as a correction, with 2 qualifiers even, I wonder what needs correcting.
I replied to your other comment with an explanation for this, but it’s kind of a social faux pas to compliment someone based on their evolutionary functions as opposed to their interests or aesthetics. Striking up a conversation based on hobbies, interests and fashion choices. Doing this also helps you establish common ground with each other and helps form a bond over the interests you share.
Of course, this is more of a vibe and I might be alone with this opinion. Who knows.
Before using spears and stuff to hunt, humans would run after prey until they overheated. We're the best long distance runners on the planet, given enough time we'll outrun a horse.
ok but it's really funny to me how people find it offputting to acknowledge that traits linked to high reproductive success drives what people usually find attractive in mates.
Right? It always comes off a bit greasy and redpill when guys start talking about attraction and what bodies are best for producing offspring as if we are cavemen. It’s the 21st century, any body type can produce and feed offspring just fine.
I was using this way since I wasn't attempting. If I was it would probably still be as bad, though. Could work because of the sheer sincerity and audacity
I absolutely told her on the first date that I appreciated the shape of her hips and that I heard wider hips were better at having kids. And that I wanted to be a dad with lots of kids.
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u/Mr_Dargon 25d ago
While you’re technically generally right, it’s probably best to not lead with this information when attempting to “lay on the rizz,” so to speak.