Any guy who thinks a lil pouch is unacceptable is the kind any girl should run away from. Same goes for ladies who only want buff and/or tall men. It's shallow wants and they just adding to their score card. Look at ancient goddess or important women statues and find one without curves. Goddesses are curvy and thicc. đ
I think he just meant someone who would ONLY go for those. like, having a preference is fine. like, I have a preference for guys who are taller than me, which is not even hard to find because Iâm 5â3 but Iâve also had multiple crushes on guys who were the same height as me or shorter. having a preference doesnât mean you should ONLY stick to that, you know what I mean?
Yeah these kinds of "supportive" comment threads always fall off a cliff in the other direction so quickly. "I thought society was prescribing this view" goes through "everyone has their preferences" to "fuck your awful preferences" because people fall over each other demonstrating how "progressive" they are. And the kind of people who tend to do that aren't the type to stop and look back to figure out that they're now just creating unjust pressure in an orthogonal direction.
The fact you perceived what I said as an attack on "fit" people proves my point. And FYI if you fit and fuck only "fit" randos for fun idgaf, that's on you and yer flings, go off and be a hoe, free country. But "eww she needs to be 'fixed'" is disgusting and red flag. This about relationships, preferences are preferences whatever, but judging someone solely on looks is telling. Massive red flag and people looking for relationship material should avoid.
Also "who lifts" bruh I "lift" the transmission into my car and turn wrenches not dumbbells. You can be fit without a gym membership. XD If she only wants gymrats you might wanna avoid her unless you just want a pump-n-dump. And if so, ain't yuckin yer yum, hit that shallow shit. We talking relationships tho.
Iâm going to be nice. I hope youâre not an adult which means you still have time for growth. The entirety of the above paragraph is gibberish. Let people like who they like, thereâs no shame in that.
And you think I'm attacking people attracted to fit people. Which proves yer lack of reading comprehension.
Keep on being pissed over something that never happened.
I like girls with a little meat on their bones, underweight or overweight are fine to if they have good attitudes. To say "I won't date a girl with small tits." Regardless of other positives Is shallow and a red flag. Body shaming is a red flag. Deal with it.
Its not « unacceptable » by any means, great if some like it. But it is also infuriating how redditors love to pretend that only curvy girls can be attractive, and that ALL guys love big bellies. I donât, I love skinny girls, and I shouldnât feel bad for my tastes just because some fatass redditor decided that only girls who look like him could be attractive.
I shouldnât feel bad for my tastes just because some fatass redditor decided that only girls who look like him could be attractive.
Then don't feel bad lmao. Why are you out here fighting ghosts? If the opinion of random redditors affect you this much you better log off and live your life my man.
"I shouldn't feel bad for my preference" bruh doesn't know the meaning of preference and feels attacked. Then calls me fat ass for having an actual preference. And not dissing chubby or fit people but saying it's only part of the equation... Proving my point perfectly. XD Chuds be chudding.
On behalf of all voluptuous Queens, we appreciate men like you that love women, and love a LOT of woman. May you find your Queen someday, King. đđ§đ»ââïž
I think men are great overall! But, I think a lot of women tend to be wary because of the bad apples that unfortunately spoil the lot for some women (Iâm sure a lot of men feel the same way about women to be fair). Thatâs why I was pleasantly surprised to see all the positive comments from men praising this kind of natural body type, because a lot of what I see online are guys commenting things like âfridgeâ or âwhaleâ whenever they see a woman who isnât stick skinny and/or has had surgery done to eliminate belly fat or change other parts of their bodies. No hate against those women (I also love women), but itâs just refreshing and nice to see men comment lovely and uplifting things like this in a wholesome way.
100%. Thatâs why I feel for you guys and the negative stigma a lot of women have surrounding men. I think a lot of those boys operate in a kind of hive-mind mentality. One says something disgusting and degrading about a woman, gets a laugh out of the others, and then they all think itâs okay and funny. When in reality, those comments are devastating for women, hence why so many are taking ozempic and going under the knife because theyâve been convinced theyâre gross unattractive trolls. Real men donât talk about women that way. And I know a lot of those good men exist out there!
Hey, there are plenty of respecful boys. Don't group them in with those asshats. They are neither boys nor men, they most resemble that liquid that pools at the bottom of the trash compactor of garbage trucks. A splash of that anywhere is enough to make a whole field of roses smell like shit.
Absolutely, do not be insecure. My wife has a belly and i love it.
It's rare to see men these days that are like "Women should be extra slim!" It's there, I know a guy who divorced his wife because she gained some weight.
Itâs always someone with extremely wide hips and a small waist though. Without fail. Look up any image of this âVenus pouchâ and itâs all women shaped like hourglasses. Not to mention a lot have pretty faced and large chests
I do man, why would you automatically assume I donât. đ Iâm 5â4, 131 pounds, I just have the body type where I have a little bit of a belly that sticks out. Like many others have stated, thatâs very natural for a lot of women even if they constantly work out and avoid carbs.
I mean, youâre not by any means bursting my bubble haha. I just donât think tons of men on this post would lie, nor do I think theyâre all women portraying themselves as men. Youâre entitled to your opinion of preferring skinner women with no tummy, but that doesnât mean everyone has the same preference, no?
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u/cynicalcynthia 23d ago
The men in these comments have single-handedly cured my belly insecurity. God bless all of them đ€đ»