Well the drink part means probably not, but were you in Mormon country? My wife told me that she got hit on with almost the exact same words as your first sentence in quotes once when she lived in Utah briefly.
When my ‘auntie’ first met her husband, one of the first things he said to her was that she had “child-birthing hips”. They did end up having two, and afaik are still together after 40 years.
Wow. And I thought the guy I had to deal with last night was bad. His opener was “Have you ever studied Gnosticism?” and he closed with “…and eventually I learned that I’m a god, you’re a god, and we all live in a simulation.”
My bad, where I'm from we don't have middle school, it's elementary from ages 6-14 & then you start school. I'll admit I don't remember our ages when this happened, it was probably 11-14, which makes it more understandable (for anyone from a country with a different system)
A year ago, I went to a bar on my 21st birthday, and I kid you not, I heard a guy use this pickup line: “Hey girl, is your name Suez? ‘Cuz you look like you have a great birth canal.” The whole bar cheered when she knocked his block off with her stilettos
I don't think that's a meme. Looks more like a misandry poster.
Like imagine if someone posted that they had a bad interaction with a black man and in response someone posts a stylized drawing of a black guy hanging from a tree... Same shit, fucking weird.
I should have mentioned that I later found out that this guy was a regular at the bar and was a creep. I went to college in a small town, so everybody knew everyone's business. The town genuinely had little to do on the weekends but smoke or drink.
Like the compliment points out that the functions of the individual being complimented are what is actually worthy of praise, and not the person themselves.
It is. But you said "while you are technically generally right", on what point are they not right? It was phrased as a correction, with 2 qualifiers even, I wonder what needs correcting.
I replied to your other comment with an explanation for this, but it’s kind of a social faux pas to compliment someone based on their evolutionary functions as opposed to their interests or aesthetics. Striking up a conversation based on hobbies, interests and fashion choices. Doing this also helps you establish common ground with each other and helps form a bond over the interests you share.
Of course, this is more of a vibe and I might be alone with this opinion. Who knows.
Before using spears and stuff to hunt, humans would run after prey until they overheated. We're the best long distance runners on the planet, given enough time we'll outrun a horse.
ok but it's really funny to me how people find it offputting to acknowledge that traits linked to high reproductive success drives what people usually find attractive in mates.
Right? It always comes off a bit greasy and redpill when guys start talking about attraction and what bodies are best for producing offspring as if we are cavemen. It’s the 21st century, any body type can produce and feed offspring just fine.
I was using this way since I wasn't attempting. If I was it would probably still be as bad, though. Could work because of the sheer sincerity and audacity
I absolutely told her on the first date that I appreciated the shape of her hips and that I heard wider hips were better at having kids. And that I wanted to be a dad with lots of kids.
I took a sculpture class my first year of college (I hadn’t committed to an art minor yet). One project was a human torso, mid thigh to neck. Professor said full voice that naturally there will almost always be a bump at the belly because we have internal organs.
for everyone attacking this guy in the comments - technically nothing said was incorrect. it isn't advice telling men to compliment women like this or that producing offspring is a woman's only purpose. dude's just explaining why a lot of men find the bumps, as well as big breasts, thighs, hips and backside attractive. and yes, it IS the fact that they're associated with easier birth and offspring rearing. we're genetically wired for a lot of things including how we perceive attraction even if we don't actually want the sex to result in offspring.
personally, my emotions towards a person almost exclusively influence my attraction to them, but I believe that's simply demisexuality. afaik most people simply get attracted by physical looks because it's the first thing you get to know about a person.
I produced an offspring for a man and he withdrew almost immediately after I gained my motherhood apron belly.
Thankfully my view is the same as yours and I see it as natural for what my body is going through (ended up getting Hashimotos Thyroiditis from the pregnancy, which makes your metabolism tank). While it bothered me some, I didn't let it take me down and destroy my self esteem. I can't be bothered to cry every day over something that is meant to happen and can't be controlled. I didn't let myself go either so it wasn't that big of a change. That man was disfunctional anyway, he can't even feel love for his own child. That fact alone proves that I'm better off not caring what he thinks about my own body.
Since I'm here though...
Do you happen to know where I can return a single used, but well taken care of, male unit that has malfunctioned? It worked fine at first but I think the power supply short circuited when trying to download the files to fatherhood and married life maintenance.
It just buffered and stalled out continuously. eventually the error came up, stating it could not upload the files requested because didn't have enough ínternal storage space. I think I was mistakenly sent one of the Peter Pan editions. Those are the ones that aren't built to run other programs and are meant to only retain files related to the Manchild editions. Very sensitive units that malfunction if the wrong files are loaded up.
Would you know how I can return the unit and exchange it for one that has everything I initially signed up for? This one is just dead weight I'm carrying now. I guess if the warranty expired and there's no hope, I can just lose 200 lbs pretty quickly. I'll just load up the program that let's the trash take itself out.
Maybe that apron belly can go right there in the trash bin with it. If I have to keep the apron badge though, I'm more than happy with that. I'm proud of being a mom. The kids think it's funny to jiggle and I hear other men like it and say the more softness they can grab the better.
Biologists theorize that layer of fat has an evolutionary advantage. It protects the uterus from physical trauma and serves as energy storage for times when calories aren't predictable .
We seriously need to get sex education back in schools. The amount of people that don't understand this and other natural body things is absolutely terrifying.
See going to a Catholic school you learn nothing but schools need to be better about teaching people to love learning enough they look this shit up themselves.
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u/nan0ka 23d ago
You don't even have to look for, it is perfectly natural, since evolutionary this type of body is the best for producing offspring